Phantse wonke umntu uqhelene noAlice kwiWonderland nguLewis Carroll: ibali lentombazana encinci egxotha umvundla omhlophe ezantsi emngxunyeni kwaye yaphelela kwihlabathi lomlingo.
indlela yokungabi nomona kubudlelwane
Ngaphandle nje kokuthile okuvakalayo njengeakhawunti yohambo lwe-asidi olunamandla kakhulu lombhali, intsomi izele zizifundo zobomi eziqaqambileyo, ukuba sithatha ixesha lokuzihoya.
Ukuthatha iingozi kunokukhokelela kwii-Adventures ezimangalisayo
Akukho kwanto eyavelayo, akukho nto yafunyanwa. Ukuba uAlice wayengakhethanga ukutsiba loo mngxuma womvundla, ngewayengazange ahlangane nabahlobo abamangalisayo awabafumana eWonderland. Wayengayi kubhikica ubulumko kumava akhe, afumanise ukuba unoxanduva kwaye ukuzithemba xa wayedinga ukuba njalo, kwaye nangona ezinye izinto ezimangazayo zinokwenzeka ebomini, zihlala zilungile.
Ukungena kwindawo engaziwayo kuyothusa. Sonke siyayazi loo nto. Akukho nto ibonisa ukuba kunokulala ngaphesheya kwetonela, kodwa asisoze safumanisa ukuba asiphononongi, akunjalo? Indawo yokuthuthuzela inokuziva ikhuselekile, kodwa akukho nto ikhula kuyo.
'Sonke Siphambene apha'
Le ndawo intle kakhulu, kodwa ngendlela elungileyo, kwaye inokulandelwa “Nizingombono ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa ndiza kukuxelela imfihlo. Bonke abantu ababalaseleyo. ”
Uninzi lwethu lunee-quirks esizaziyo malunga nazo, okanye sizixakekisa ngento yokuba siziva ngathi sisecicini lokuwohloka ngelixa wonke umntu okusingqongileyo kubonakala ngathi unakho konke okuphantsi kolawulo.
Uyakwazo oko? Akukho mntu ungaphandle ongasokoliyo ne-smorgasbord eyiyo yemicimbi. Kwaye kulungile ngokupheleleyo. Iimpawu zethu senze sahluke kwaye iyamangalisa, kwaye ukwazi ukuba sonke siyaphambana kusinika ithuba lokukhula, kwaye siguquke, kwaye sincedane ngexesha lokuhamba kwethu kule planethi incinci yasendle.
'Akuncedi ukubuyela izolo, kuba ndandingomnye umntu ngoko'
Awunguye laa mntu wawuyimizuzu emihlanu edlulileyo, makungabikho mntu wayizolo, okanye kwinyanga ephelileyo, okanye kwiminyaka emihlanu eyadlulayo. Sonke sihlala sitshintsha kwaye siguquka njengoko siqhubeka sikhula kwaye sifunda, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba oku kuyinyani njengaye wonke umntu njengoko kunjalo nakuwe.
Sifundile kwiimpazamo zethu, kwimizabalazo yethu, nakumava onke esiye sadlula kuwo, kwaye zonke ezo zinto zisitshintsha. Kubalulekile ukuba uzithande kwaye uzamkele kulomntu uyiyo ngoku, hayi into eyenzekileyo ngaphambili: awusenguye la mntu.
“Ndizinika Icebiso Elilungileyo, Kodwa Andifane Ndililandele”
Kukangaphi usazi ukuba ulahlwe kakuhle into ekufuneka uyenzile kwimeko ethile, kodwa ungayenzi? Kwaye zingaphi izinto eziye zabuya umva ngaphezulu kwiteketile njengesiphumo?
Kutheni le nto singazithembi iingcebiso zethu?
ndiyakuze ndiphinde ndithembe umntu obhinqileyo
Uninzi lwabantu kunokwenzeka kakhulu ukuba bamamele iingcebiso abazinikwe ngabanye ngaphezulu kwezabo intuition yakho , kodwa nguloo mvakalelo wethu wesithandathu ekufanele ukuba simamele rhoqo. Intuition ayinakufane ikukhokele ngokungalunganga, kodwa ungaphantse uqinisekise ukuba izinto ziya kuhamba kakubi ukuba awusithobeli isilumkiso sayo.
'Ukhangeleka echwayitile kanjani, Hayi indlela ezoluleke kakuhle ngayo iinzipho zakhe, Kwaye wamkela iintlanzi ezincinci, Ngomhlathi oncumayo!'
Abapolitiki, abathengisi bezentengiso, kunye ne-narcissists banento efanayo: i-oily, charm manipulative, kwaye bahlala beyisebenzisa ukunyanzela abanye ukuba benze oko bafuna. Xa kwaye udibana nomntu ophethe inwebu enkulu, enamazinyo kwaye ebonakala ngathi ayinakuphikiswa, qaphela: banokuba yingwenya ekhazimlayo eya kuthi ikutshonise amazinyo ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba ufikelele ngaphakathi.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
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'Andiqondi…' emva koko akufuneki uthethe, utshilo uMzondo.
Oku kuhamba nombono wokuba kungcono uthule kwaye ucinge ukuba usisidenge, kunokuba uvule umlomo wakho ubonakalise ukuba kunjalo. Ngeli xesha apho abantu abaninzi babonakala bethumela okanye bethumela i-tweet nantoni na eyenzekayo entlokweni yabo nangaliphi na ixesha, kuninzi ekufuneka kuthethwe ngokuthula. Kubaluleke nangakumbi ukwenza njalo xa uziva ukhathazekile okanye unomsindo (ukuba nje ayijiki ukungathethi cwaka ).
Xa sisebenza ngokunyanzelwa, siye sizisole ngezenzo zethu kamva, ngakumbi kuba ukucaca kuza kuphela nokubuyela emva… emva koko siziva ngathi sizidenge ezifanelekileyo. Iimvakalelo eziphakanyisiweyo zigubungela iingcinga zethu kunye nomgwebo, ke xa ubushushu buvutha, kungcono uthule.
'Ngewenze umntwana owoyikekayo kodwa wenza ihagu entle, ndiyacinga.'
Ukuba ngokwakho yinyani, kwaye awunakukunceda kodwa ukhanyisele isidalwa somlingo onguye. Ngokunyaniseka, esihogweni ngokunxiba iimaski nokuzenza into ongeyiyo: awuyi kuziva ukhululekile kulusu lwakho.
Abantu bonwabile kwaye bazaliseka ngakumbi xa belandela indlela yeentliziyo zabo eziyinyani, ke yiya! Yiba yingulube.
“Ijaji nganye yayinombono owahlukileyo kwakude kudala ngaphambi kokuba kufundwe isimangalo”
Kukhuselekile ukutsho ukuba ngamnye wethu uthathe into malunga nomntu okanye imeko. Sidla ngokwenza yenza izigqibo ngokukhawuleza ngaphambi kokufumana iinkcukacha, kwaye ezo ngcinga zivela kukhetho olukhethwe kumava ethu.
Kulula kakhulu ukwenza ibali elicingelwayo ngokusekwe kwimifanekiso embalwa oyikhethileyo okanye kwiibhithi zolwazi, kodwa kude kube ngoku sibone umfanekiso omkhulu ukuba sinokumqonda ngokunyanisekileyo omnye umntu, okanye abanokuthi (okanye bangabinako).
Kubaluleke ngendlela emangalisayo ukubuza endaweni yokucinga, kuba ukucinga okusekwe kwiingcinga kunokukhokelela kwizityholo nasekuhlaselweni… emva koko, ukuzisola ngento ethethwayo okanye eyenziwe.
Kwaye emva kwexesha kakhulu ukubuyisa nantoni na.
'Yiyo loo nto kubizwa ngokuba zizifundo,' u-Gryphon wathi: 'kuba ziyancipha imihla ngemihla. '
Sihlala sifunda lukhulu ngalo mzuzu, kodwa emva koko ezo epiphanies ziyaphela ngokuhamba kwexesha. Ngokuqhelekileyo kutheni abantu abanesimo somoya behlala bephinda bahlole iimfundiso, ukucamngca, njl. Njl. Rhoqo: ngaphandle kokuba sizikhumbuze izifundo esizifundileyo , Banokuphela okanye batshintshwe kukuhlaselwa kolwazi esihlala siphantsi kwalo.
“Bamba ulwimi lwakho!’ Watsho uKumkanikazi, ejika emfusa. ‘Andiyi!’ Watsho uAlice. ”
Naxa u-Alice wayesemngciphekweni wokuqhawulwa ngulo Kumkanikazi weentliziyo, wayezimisele yena. Bangaphi kuthi abathe cwaka kwiimeko apho siphathwa kakubi ngenxa yokuba asifuni kuphazamisa uxolo, okanye ukuphazamisa abo basingqongileyo? Ewe, ulibale oko.
ndingakuthemba njani kwakhona
Unamandla, kwaye woyikekayo, kwaye ufanele ukuhlonitshwa, ke ukuba uzifumana ukwimeko apho uphethwe kakubi, khumbula ilizwi lakho, kwaye uthethe. KAKHULU, ukuba kunyanzelekile, ukuba uve.
UAlice wayecinga ukuba zimbalwa kakhulu izinto ezingenakwenzeka. ”
Ukufezekisa injongo okanye iphupha lobomi kunokubonakala kunzima ekuqaleni, kodwa kunene kuncinane kakhulu okungenakufezekiswa ngokuzinikela nokusebenza nzima. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kungafuneka woyise imiqobo, kwaye kungathatha umzamo omkhulu ngamaxesha athile, kodwa ngokuzinikela nokuzimisela, uyakumangaliswa yinto onokuyiphumeza.
Ukuba ukhe uzive ngathi iphupha olilandelayo lingaphaya kwamandla akho, thatha imizuzu embalwa kwaye wenze uphando lwewebhu malunga nabantu aboyise imiqobo emikhulu ukuze bafezekise iinjongo zabo. Ukuba umncinci Umntu okhubazekileyo unokufumana isidanga somthetho , kunye umfazi ongaboniyo unokugqwesa uninzi lweembaleki ezomeleleyo kwiiOlimpiki , cinga ngento onokuyiphumeza ukuba ubeka intliziyo yakho nomphefumlo wakho kumaphupha akho.
