Ukuba ubandakanyeka ngokupheleleyo kubudala obutsha / intshukumo yokomoya (kwaye ukuba ufunda amanqaku kule ndawo, kukho ithuba elihle), ke ngokungathandabuzekiyo uqhelene nabantu abaziwa njenge abasebenzi .
Ngapha koko, kunokwenzeka ukuba udibane nabantu abaliqela abazichaza njengabo. Aba banokuba ngabantu obaziyo kumaqela akho asekuhlaleni, abo ulandela i-Instagram kunye ne-Twitter, okanye abahlobo-bakho-abahlobo oye waxhoma nabo emva kweeklasi zakho ezishushu zeyoga.
Nantsi into: abantu abaphefumla malunga nokuba 'bavuke' njani, ngokubanzi abekho. Ukuba bathetha kuphela ngothando kunye nokukhanya kwaye abavumi nokwamkela izinto ezimnyama zengqondo yomntu, kungasathethwa ke ngazo, ke banokuthi boyike into kwaye bayifihle ngayo nangayiphi na indlela eyimfuneko.
Umsebenzi wokukhanyisa awukho nje ngokwabelana uthando olungenamiqathango ngohlobo lweememethe ezimenyezelayo ezigcwele iziqinisekiso ezilungileyo: imalunga nokukhanya okukhanyayo kwiimbombo ezimnyama uninzi lwabantu alunakukhetha ukujonga kulo ... kodwa kukwezo zithunzi apho ukuqonda kokwenene kunye nokukhula kwenzeka.
Inyaniso inokubuhlungu njengesihogo
Uninzi lwabantu luya kwenza konke okusemandleni abo ukuphepha iintlungu. Baza kudala umhlaba wobuxoki ukuba baphile kuwo kwaye baphonononge ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokubaleka endaweni yokujongana nokwamkela iinyani abangathanda ukungaphikisani nazo.
Ngokwenza njalo, bahlala bengaqapheli ngokwenyani umonakalo abawenzayo kubomi babo babangqongileyo. Bajonge kakhulu ekuzikhuseleni kuwo nawuphi na umngcipheko wokungonwabi kangangokuba bathabathe nawaphi na amanyathelo abawabona eyimfuneko ukuze bahlale 'bekhuselekile'… kwaye kukuphinda babone ukuba banokuthi, mhlawumbi, baqonde ukulungiswa kwezenzo zabo.
Uninzi aluzange lwenjenjalo. Bahlala nje bephinda-phinda imijikelo enye kwakhona ukunqanda ukujonga kwiibhokisi ezimnyama ezibambe iinyaniso aboyikayo ukujongana nazo kuba bazi kakuhle ukuba kuya kuba kubi kangakanani ukwenza oko.
Sifuna abasebenzi bokukhanyisa ukuze basifundise indlela yokwenza ngqiyama kwi loo ntlungu endaweni yokuphambuka kuyo, kuba ukukhanyela izinto zethu ezimnyama kukhokelela kwizenzo ezigwenxa ezichaphazela wonke umntu osingqongileyo. Kuphela ngokujongana nale ntlungu ephulukana namandla ayo kuthi.
Into abo bathintela iintlungu abangaphumeleliyo ukuyazi kukuba nini kwaye ukuba usuku lufikile apho yenza bajongane noloyiko lwabo, kwaye bazivulele iinyaniso zabo zobuqu, lolo suku apho baya kufumana uxolo lwenene nenkululeko. Uxinzelelo kunye nokukhanyela kunamandla kakhulu iindlela zokuzikhusela , kodwa baphela bekhusela ntoni umntu? Kukho ukuzola okumangalisayo kunye novuyo ukufunyanwa ekwamkelweni, kodwa kuthatha okuninzi yenkalipho yokufika apho…
… Kwaye kulapho abasebenzi bokukhanya bangena khona.
Ngena kwiiSithunzi
Kwinqaku lakutshanje, umbhali UXwebhu De Lux wabelane ngeengcinga zakhe malunga nabasebenza ngokukhanya:
'… Abasebenzi bokwenene abakhanyisi abathethi ikakhulu ngezinto ezikhanyayo nezintofontofo. Bathetha ngezinto ezibalekileyo nezilityelweyo, kuba ngokwabelana kwabo nokuqonda okunzima, okubuhlungu, nobumnyama, bazisa ukukhanya apho bekuncinane khona.
Uninzi lwabantu ALUFUNI ukujonga ubumnyama babo.
Bonwabile ngokugcina izinto ezimnyama, ezonakeleyo, ezingafunekiyo zobomi babo kwiibhokisi ezifanelekileyo, ezibekwe kumagunjana nangaphantsi kweebhedi… kodwa ukubabuyisela kude oko akubenzi hamba kude. Xa ezi zinto zingajongwanga kwaye kujongwane nemfesane, azipholi. Bavele baphinde basasaze ubunzima kuwo onke amacala, basirhuqela phambili ezantsi emngxunyeni womvundla.
Xa singajongani nezithunzi zethu, ziyasongamela. Banokubangela yonke into ukusuka kuxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo kukonakala kwemithambo-luvo kunye neziqendu zengqondo. Xa izithunzi zenyani yethu zingena kumnandi wethu uqikelelo , singangxolisa abo basingqongileyo kumzamo wokuzama ukugcina udonga lunyukile, kodwa iindonga azihlali zihleli ngokusisigxina, andibi kunjalo? Inyaniso ifumana indlela yokuphuma ukuba siyayifuna okanye asiyifuni.
Ihlabathi lifuna abasebenzi abasebenza ngokulula kunakuqala kuba siye saba lilizwe elizele ngabantwana abathandabuzayo abafuna iziphazamiso kwaye bafumane intuthuzelo kubuxoki obucacileyo utyekelo oluya kuthi lusitshabalalise ngokukhawuleza kunayo nayiphi na intlekele yasemzini.
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- Icala elimnyama leempaths
- Iimpawu ze-4 Uyi-Impathrive Empath (Ayisiyiyo nje i-Empath)
- Ngaphakathi Engqondweni yoMntu oPhezulu oVakalayo
Kufuneka Sivuke
Ihlabathi liphela ligutyungelwe ziintlungu ezikhulayo ngoku, kwaye kubonakala ngathi sisondele kwindawo enokuthi ikhokelele kwenye imfazwe yehlabathi, kunye notshintsho lwemozulu, ukunqongophala kwamanzi kunye nokunqongophala kokutya.
Ngokwenyani kuxhomekeke kuthi ukuba siyazivulela na kwiinyani zethu kwaye sibe zezona nguqulelo zingcono kuthi esinokuthi sibenako, ukuba sabelane ngothando lokwenene, intlonipho, kunye nolwalamano kunye nawo wonke umntu okule planethi, okanye siwele kwinto efanayo kugxilwe, ukungakhathali okuqaqambileyo okuye kwahlasela izizukulwana ezidlulileyo.
Baninzi abantu abazikhethelayo besebenzisa uloyiko, ukuba inkululeko ibekwa ezandleni zabo baya kuthi basebenzise kakubi amandla abo, kodwa benze abo baphantsi kolawulo lwabo bazive bekhuselekile. Ukungazi kunokuba yinto eyonwabisayo, kodwa ngaba uyabaleka, uzifihle, kwaye uzonwabise ngokwenyani yokubaleka?
Loluphi uhlobo lwelifa esilushiya ngasemva ngolu hlobo lokuziphatha? Liya kujongeka kanjani ilizwe kwinkulungwane ukusukela ngoku? Izizukulwana ezizayo ziyakucinga ntoni ngathi, ukuba olu hlobo luyakwazi ukuphila?
'Andifuni ukucinga ngayo' kukususwa ngokupheleleyo koxanduva lomntu, kunye nokuma ukukhula komntu. 'Ndifuna ukuziva ndikhuselekile' iziphumo kwi-xenophobia, ukwahlukana kwenye, kwaye kunzima ukungakhathali kwabo bahluphekayo. Zonke ezo zihloko zingathandekiyo kunye neemeko ezenza ukuba sizive ngathi si-ouchy zezi kakhulu kakhulu ukuba kufuneka sijonge apho kufuneka sihlale khona ukuze siqonde ukuba kutheni besentlungwini, kwaye kufuneka senze ntoni ukwenza izinto zibengcono.
Abakhanyisi baphakamise izipili phambi kwamehlo ethu kwaye basinyanzela ukuba sijonge kwiindawo esihlala sikhetha ukungazihoyi kuba zisenza singonwabi.
Abasebenzi bokuKhanya bokwenyani baya kuKoyikisa
Abanye babasebenzi abanamandla kunabo bonke abaye baphila ngobunzima obungaqhelekanga, kodwa basebenze indlela yabo ukuze bafumane ukukhula kunye nobulumko. Basenokuba babesokola iminyaka nayo yonke into ukusuka imikhwa yokuzenzakalisa ukuba likhoboka, kodwa emva koko bajika bahamba iindlela zabo ezimnyama nge-maelstrom yeentlungu zabo kwaye bafumana iflickling flatch ebatsala ekukhanyeni. Kwinyaniso, noxolo, namandla.
kutheni abafana bemka xa bekuthanda
Ngula mandla aza kutsala abantu abaphukileyo nabonakeleyo, kodwa angabatyhalela kude kwangabo bantu, ekuhambeni kwexesha. Abo bacinezela kwaye bephika izinto eziyinyani ngokwabo banokuziva bengakhululekanga ngokubonakalayo kubasebenzi bezibane, kuba amandla abo anokunyanzela ukukhanya kwiindawo ezimnyama abantu abangathanda ukuzigcina bezifihlile. Ukungcangcazela abancwina ngako kunokuba kufane nelanga emini emaqanda: kunokuba nzima, kwaye kutshise nabo bangakulungelanga ukujongana nayo.
Abo bachitha ixesha kunye nabasebenza ngokukhanya kodwa abangakulungelanga ukuzintywilisela kwimimandla yezithunzi bahlala bekhawuleza babaleke, babuyela kwiindawo apho bafumana ukhuseleko kunye nentuthuzelo. Buyela kwiindawo apho ukukhula okuphezulu kunye 'nokutya' kunokwenzeka, kuba kunjalo lula ukunxiba i-quartz rose kunye nesip bespoke kombucha kwaye 'thumela ukukhanya' kubantu abakude.
Nguwo lula ukuhamba ngokukhanya kokuphila nokuphefumla. Kunzima ukujonga esipilini kwaye samkele uhanahaniso lwethu, ubugwala, ukuphathwa gadalala kwabanye, kwaye kunzima ngakumbi ukubeka umgudu wangempela kwinkqubo yokutshintsha onke la mava anokuthi abe ngolusu olusulungekileyo kwaye asibonise inkqubo yokusikhulula.
Sifuna abasebenzi bokukhanyisa ngoku ngakumbi kunangaphambili, kodwa kufuneka sivumele ukukhanya kwabo kungene.
