Amabhongo. Elinye lala magama anezichazi ezakhayo nezingalunganga.
Kwasekuzalweni, siyakhuthazwa senze konke okusemandleni ethu kunye nokufikelela kwiinkwenkwezi, ucebisa ukuba ukuba nebhongo yinto elungileyo.
Kwelinye icala, ibinzana esilivayo ngokufuthi ‘ngamabhongo angenanceba,’ nangona bembalwa kuthi abanokukhathalela ukuchazwa njengabangenanceba.
Ngumntu okulungeleyo ukulwa indlela yabo eya phezulu ngaphandle kokunika ingcinga yesibini kwisiphelo sabo babanyathela endleleni.
‘Umdlalo’ unokujika ngokulula ukusuka kumnqweno wokuphumelela uye kwisidingo esinzulu sokubetha abanye nokuba kungakanani na. Iziphumo zelo meko aziyi kuba ntle.
Ngaba akunomdla ukwazi ukuba igama elinye kufuneka libe neentsingiselo ezimbini ezahlukeneyo?
Ayisiyo Nqanaba lokuDlala
Phambi kokuba ndiqhubele phambili kugqaliselo lwesi siqwenga, andinakukwazi ukukuchasa ukukhankanya ukuba eli gama alinantsingiselo yimbi kuphela, kodwa kukho umahluko okwahlukileyo ngokwesini kwindlela amabhongo ajongwa ngayo.
Nangona ngokwesiko kudunyiswa kuluntu lwethu ukuba indoda ibenamabhongo, ngokuchaseneyo kuyinyani kwabasetyhini. Uninzi lwabantu alonwabanga kwaphela ngengcinga yomfazi ozabalazela ngokuphandle nangokuvakalayo impumelelo.
Isifundo esityhilayo yiYunivesithi yaseColumbia ezimisele ukuphanda le ithiyori.
Abathathi-nxaxheba kolu phando bazisiwe ngolwazi malunga nongxowankulu abangavumiyo kwaye bacela uluvo lwabo kumntu njengeqabane elinokubakho.
Amashumi amahlanu eepesenti eqela banikwa igama lomgqatswa njengoHoward ngelixa abanye bakholelwa ukuba igama nguHeidi.
Umbono weqela 'likaWoward' lomgqatswa wawulungile, ukanti iqela lika'Heidi 'laziva ukuba usekude ekubeni liqabane elifanelekileyo kwaye likholelwa ukuba uzingca.
Njengoko kubonisiwe kolu phononongo, umfazi onamabhongo ngokungathandabuzekiyo ujongwa ngokungathandekiyo, ngelixa indoda enamabhongo ibonwa njengexabisekileyo. Inomdla kwaye ayifanelekanga!
Enye into enxulumene nesini kukuba abantu ababhinqileyo abanamabhongo bambalwa kwaye baqhubekile phakathi kwabesilisa babo.
Eyona nto inokwenzeka kukuba le iphantsi kwemeko yezentlalo, ibangela ukuba abasetyhini bathambekele ekuthetheni gwenxa okujongela phantsi amandla abo okufezekisa amabhongo abo kunye nokufikelela kubuchule babo obupheleleyo.
Ngethamsanqa, abasetyhini benkulungwane yamashumi amabini ananye, ukusuka kwibala lezemidlalo ukuya kwigumbi lokubhoda, bathatha le mikhwa mibi yamabhongo ababhinqileyo phambili, kodwa kucacile ukuba kusenomsebenzi ekufuneka wenziwe ukutshintsha le mibono ilukhuni.
Ngoku ndiyikhuphile loo nto esifubeni sam, singabuyela kumxholo osesandleni…
Umkhosi oqinisekileyo woTshintsho
Ngaphandle kwamabhongo, kunokucingelwa ukuba thina bantu besiya kuhlala siphila emiqolombeni. Kukuqhuba komntu ukufezekisa okuzisa utshintsho emva koko kwenziwe inkqubela phambili.
Logama ihanjiselwe ngokuchanekileyo, amabhongo anokufikelela kwiziphumo ezintle.
Ukucaphula uNeel Burton, ugqirha wezifo zengqondo kunye nombhali we Izulu kunye nesihogo: I-Psychology yeemvakalelo:
Uninzi lwempumelelo enkulu yomntu ziimveliso, okanye iingozi, zamabhongo abo.
xa umyeni wakho engakuthandi
Uqhubeka echaza ukuba, ngokomndilili, abantu abanamabhongo bafumana amanqanaba aphezulu emfundo kunye nengeniso, bakha imisebenzi ehloniphekileyo, kwaye banike ingxelo amanqanaba aphezulu obomi bolwaneliseko.
Iqhinga, kubonakala ngathi, kukuphuhlisa isempilweni amabhongo, apho i-go-getter enomdla inokuthi iwusebenzise khona umnqweno wayo wokuphumelela ngaphandle kokunyathela bonke oogxa bayo kwindlela yabo ephezulu.
Ukuzithemba kukuNgqinisisa umda
Kuba amabhongo avelisa ngokucacileyo ezi zibonelelo, masiqwalasele kwiziphumo zamabhongo 'asempilweni', ngokuchasene nodidi olungenanceba.
Zithini iinkqubo zokucinga kunye nemeko ezenza impumelelo okanye ukusilela?
Eyona nto iphambili kukuba uninzi lwethu luthintelwe kumandla ethu okufezekisa ngokungapheliyo kokungakhathali kunye nokuthandabuza kwiintloko zethu. Ukunikezela kwezi ngcinga zingasincedisiyo kusenza olona tshaba lwethu lukhulu.
Ngelixa amathandabuzo anobuqhophololo ebeka iziqhoboshi kwimpumelelo yethu, abantu abanamabhongo baqhubela phambili.
YayinguHenry Ford owathi edumileyo, phayaa kwinkulungwane yama-20:
Nokuba ucinga ukuba unakho, okanye ucinga ukuba awukwazi, ulungile.
Ekukhanyeni kwempumelelo yakhe eyindumasi kunye nehlala ihleli kushishino lweemoto, ndicinga ukuba kukhuselekile ukucinga ukuba wayengumntu onamabhongo obalaseleyo owazibekela ezona njongo ziphambili kwaye wazinyanzela ukuba azizalisekise.
I-Gremlins engathandabuzekiyo
Akukho mathandabuzo ukuba uyazivumela ukholelwe ukuba awunakwenza nto, sisiqinisekiso esifileyo sokuba uya kusilela okanye, okubi ngakumbi, awuyi kuphuma kwiibhloko zokuqala.
Ayikuko ukuba siyasilela kwizimvo okanye kwiminqweno, kodwa kukuba asinakho ukuguqula umnqweno ube sisenzo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abaphuphi kunye nabaphumeleleyo bohlukaniswa kuphela ngokuba nesibindi sokuqala.
Ngokwahlukileyo kuthi abazithandabuzayo, abantu abanamabhongo banokholo olungagungqiyo kwisakhono sabo sokuphumelela kwaye yile nto ebavumela ukuba baqhubele phambili apho abanye beza khona ngokupheleleyo.
Sisakhono esithandwa kakhulu ngabo kuthi babethwa zii-gremlins zokuthandabuza.
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Amathandabuzo athi abantu abanamabhongo bayala ukunikezela
Makhe sijonge amanye amathandabuzo aqhubekekayo abantu abanamabhongo abala ukwamkela kwaye baqwalasele ukuba oku kubanika njani umda ...
1. Andizukuphumelela Kulento
Awusoze uve umntu onamabhongo esithi ngekhe aphumelele ebomini okanye emsebenzini othile.
Amabhongo sisikhuthazi esingaphakathi, ke bakholelwa ngokwenyani ukuba, nokuba kunzima kangakanani ukuzama impumelelo kwaye nokuba kungathatha ixesha elingakanani, ekugqibeleni baya kufika apho.
Amandla okuthetha ngokuzithemba akanako ukujongwa. Ukujika kwakhona kuyinyani, ke ngoku ukuzixelela ukuba uya kusilela sisiprofeto esizimele ngokwakho. Amandla amagama-nokuba awathethwanga kwaye asentloko yakho kuphela-makhulu.
2. Abanye Abantu Baza Kuhlekisa Ngam
Ayikhe ivele kwi-go-getter enamabhongo ukuba ayizukuthathwa nzulu ngabanye.
Bazixabise kakhulu ngokwabo nangokwesakhono sabo esiya kuthi emva koko sifumane intlonipho yoontanga nakubaphathi ngokufanayo. Ukuba awuzithathi ngokungathí sina, ngoko ke nabanye abayi kwenza njalo.
Ukuphuhlisa ukuzihlonipha nokufunda ukuxabisa igalelo lakho sisiseko sokwakha kwindlela eya empumelelweni.
3. Iya kuba Mbi Ukuba Ndiyasilela
Ukoyika ukusilela ayisiyonto ithwalisa umthwalo abantu abajolise kwiinjongo. Bayayiqonda into yokuba ukusilela akukubi konke, kungaphelelanga apho kuba uhlala ufunda ngakumbi kwiimpazamo kunakwimpumelelo.
Indlela yabo kukuthatha umngcipheko obaliweyo, ezinye zazo zihlawula kwaye ezinye zingenzi njalo.
Isitshixo sokuzithemba kwabo kukuqonda kwabo ukuba ukusilela ukuphuma kumda wokuqala kukusilela okukhulu kwako konke.
4. Kunzima Nje
Awuyi kubamba umntu onamabhongo ekhalaza ukuba umsebenzi unzima kakhulu okanye ngekhe bakwazi ukuwenza.
Banokuqonda okungaphakathi ukuba akukho nto ebomini eza ngokulula, okanye ubuncinci akukho nto kufanelekileyo ukuba nayo.
Ngokuhambelana, bagcina iintloko zabo phantsi kwaye babeke kumzamo ofunekayo ukufikelela kwiinjongo zabo.
Njengombhali wokuzinceda uNapoleon Hill uthi:
Abanye abantu baphupha ngempumelelo, ngelixa abanye bevuka kwaye besebenza nzima kuyo.
5. Zininzi Izinto Ezime Endleleni Yam
Ukuba usindwa kukungazithembi, kusenokwenzeka ukuba uza kubona imiceli mngeni kunye neengxaki ezivela njengezithintelo ezingenakoyiswa kwimpumelelo yakho.
Ngokwahlukileyo, abantu abanamabhongo abazinikezeli kwizimo zoloyiso ezinjalo. Amaxesha amaninzi, bayawonwabela la maqhuqhuva endleleni, beqonda ukuba ubunzima obusendleleni benza indawo ekuyiwa kuyo ekugqibeleni ibe mnandi.
tyikitya indoda ifuna wena ngokwesondo
6. Ayiloxesha elililo
Ixesha elininzi lichithwa ngokuzibekela amangomso nokulinda ‘umzuzu ogqibeleleyo’ ukuqala ngomsebenzi okanye iprojekthi.
Ngapha koko, izizathu zokulibaziseka zinokuphuculwa kangangokuba ekugqibeleni akukho nto yenzekayo konke konke.
Abantu abanamabhongo bayaqonda ukuba ukulinda okungapheliyo kweenkwenkwezi ukuba zilungelelaniswe ngokugqibeleleyo kuyinkcitha xesha elixabisekileyo. Baqala nje kwaye bagxile kumandla abo kwiinjongo eziphambili .
xa ungamthandi umntu kodwa ungazi ukuba kutheni
Isithandi sobulumko samandulo saseTshayina uLao Tzu wathi:
Uhambo lweekhilomitha eziliwaka luqala ngenyathelo elinye.
Ukuba awuzange uthathe inyathelo lokuqala, ngokucacileyo akukho mntu uya naphi na, ngokoqobo okanye ngokuzekelisayo. Elona xesha lilungileyo lokuqalisa ngoku, nokuba linyathelo nje losana- yeka ngezizathu!
7. ngekhe ndikunandiphe ukuphumelela
Abantu abanamabhongo abachithi amandla abo bexhalabile ukuba bazakujamelana njani nempumelelo xa inokuthi ifike.
Abasindwa kukuthandabuza malunga namandla abo kwaye bamkele nje impumelelo yabo njengomvuzo olungileyo wokusebenza kwabo nzima, Isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo , kunye nomoya wokurhweba.
8. Abanye Banetalente Kakhulu Kunam
Ukwenza ukuthelekisa phakathi kobuchule bakho kunye nabo babanye kuhlala kungumbono ombi. Uya kuphelisa ngokuqinisekileyo ukholelwa ekubeni ungaphantsi .
Ukuba uhlala uzama ukulinganisa abanye okholelwa ukuba 'bangcono' kunawe, kusenokwenzeka ukuba uyakuhlala usilela.
Oko kuyakujongela phantsi ukuzithemba kwakho ngakumbi kwaye kuqinise umbono wakho wokuzithoba.
Ngokwahlukileyo, abantu abanamabhongo babonakala benengqondo engaphakathi yamandla abo kunye nobuchule kwaye bangachithi ixesha labo ngokwenza uthelekiso olunjalo.
Kuya kufuneka uyamkele kwaye zixabise iitalente zakho ezizodwa kwaye ujonge ukuba lolona hlobo lubalaseleyo lwakho. Ukurhuqa umnqweno wokuzithelekisa nabahlobo kunye nabantu osebenza nabo linyathelo lokuqala elihle.
Qaphela indlela abasebenza ngayo, ngokuqinisekileyo, kwaye bavulekele ukufunda kubo. Kodwa ungazivumeli ezo mvakalelo zingathandekiyo - umona nenzondo - zingene.
Khumbula ukuba awuyiyo loo mntu uyiyo-yinyani kuwe!
9. Andilunganga / Andikufanelanga
Ukuba useto lwakho olungagqibekanga kukuthi awonelanga ngokwaneleyo okanye kufanelekile ngokwaneleyo , ke kunokwenzeka ukuba unikezele xa udibana namaqhuqhuva angenakuphepheka endleleni.
Abantu abanamabhongo abayeki kwaye abaze bathi abalunganga ngokwaneleyo.
Njengoko ingoma ihamba, 'Xa kuhamba ubunzima, ubunzima buyahamba.'
Ndicinga ukuba isishwankathela ngokufanelekileyo isimo sengqondo abanaso abantu abanamabhongo kwiingxaki abadibana nazo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, iqabane elibalulekileyo lamabhongo kukunyamezela.
Musa nje ukuNikezela kwi-Negativity
Ndicinga ukuba simisele ukuba ukungabikho kwamabhongo kunokuba lutshaba lomntu.
Iinkolelo zokuzikhawulela, imikhwa emibi, kunye neengcinga ezingalunganga kunye / okanye ezoyisayo zonke zinokuxhoma amandla okunokubakho, okukhokelela kukungoneliseki kunye nokungoneliseki.
Kwelinye icala, abantu abanamabhongo banokholo olunzulu kwiziqu zabo kunye namandla abo okuphumelela. Ngaphezu koko, bakholelwa ukuba banamandla okutshintsha umdlalo.
Amabhongo akufuneki abe malunga nempumelelo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo hayi malunga nokunyathela indlela yakho eya phezulu.
Inokuba malunga nokwenza uninzi lweetalente zakho ezizodwa kunye nokuziva ulwaneliseko oluza nalo.
Njengompopayi kunye nomhlekisi uFrank Tyger ubeka:
Amabhongo lixhala elinenjongo.
Olo dlamko lunokukunceda ufumane iingcango ezintsha, kodwa kuthatha inkanuko kunye nesibindi sokuzivula kwaye ungene kwelinye icala.
Kunye neLizwi lokuGqibela kuLao Tzu…
Ndiyathemba ukuba la mazwi obulumko aya kukukhuthaza ukuba ulahle la mathandabuzo aqhubayo, ubeke amehlo akho emvuzweni, kwaye uzalisekise amandla akho awodwa.
Sinethuba elinye kuphela kobu bomi, ke ngekhe ibe lihlazo ukungalisebenzisi ngokupheleleyo ixesha esilinikiweyo ngokuzikhulula size sinikezele kukungabi nanto?
Lumkela into oyinkcenkceshela amaphupha akho. Amanzi ngokuxhalabisa kunye noloyiko kwaye uya kuvelisa ukhula oluthintela ubomi kwiphupha lakho. Banisele ngethemba kunye nezisombululo kwaye uya kuhlakulela impumelelo. -ULao Tzu
