Khumbula, ukugoba endleleni akusiso isiphelo sendlela- ngaphandle kokuba uyasilela ukujika. -Helen Keller
Sonke siziva ngathi siyancama ndiyazi ukuba ndinamaxesha amaninzi. Kubekho amaxesha apho bendifuna ukuyeka ukubhala kunye nokubhloga, ndiyeke amaphupha am, amabhongo am kwaye uncame ngokufuna ukwenza into ekhethekileyo.
Kubekho amaxesha apho bendifuna ukuyeka zonke ezi zinto zintle ndizenzayo, kwaye ndihambe nje ubomi obuqhelekileyo, obulula. Ndinqwenele umsebenzi olula wokuhlawula amatyala, kwaye ke ndilinde nje umhlala-phantsi ukuze uzokuhlamba phezu kwam.
Kubekho amaxesha apho oku kungasentla kuye kwavakala ukuba kungokobuthixo, kwaye ke kukho into engaphakathi, engakhange, kwaye ayiyi kundivumela ukuba ndinikezele! Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ndizame kangakanani ukuyeka, kukho into eye yaqhubeka indibuyisela umva, kwaye yandityhalela ukuba ndihlale endleleni.
Nokuba yeyiphi ebomini ongathanda ukuyenza, ndiyakholelwa ukuba kufuneka uqhubeke. Uhambo oziva uphantsi luyinxalenye yekamva lakho elizukileyo. Zonke ezo zimvo zinomdla, ezo projekthi zimangalisayo kunye nokudanyaza kokhuthazo okuthe kwakho, kwenziwe njalo ngesizathu. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba bayinxalenye yobizo lwakho lwangaphakathi. Ukuba awuluboni uhambo lwakho, ubeka emngciphekweni wokujonga emva ebomini kwaye uhlala uzibuza ukuba 'kuthekani ukuba?'
Nangona ukukhwela bekungasoloko kuhamba kakuhle, ndiyavuya ukuba ndityhalele phambili, kwaye ndiyakholelwa ukuba nawe kufanelekile. Nazi izizathu ezi-6 zokuba:
Nye. Rhoqo, indawo apho sinikezela khona, lelona xesha kanye xa izinto sele ziza kuhamba. Inyani yile, ewe, awunakuze uqiniseke ngaloo nto. Nangona kunjalo, enye inyani ebalulekileyo wakuba uyekile, ulahlekelwa ngumfutho oqokelele kuwo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku.
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Ke ukuba uyinyani kholelwa kuwe kwaye wenza ntoni, ke qhubeka. Xa uqhubeka, ngenye imini, uya kujonga ngasemva kwaye wonwabe kukuba wenze njalo!
Mbini. Kuthatha ixesha ukwakha into. Xa sibona impumelelo, iingqondo zethu zihlala zibonisa ukuvela kwaloo mpumelelo, ngokungathi kuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Ngokuqhelekileyo asiboni ibali elipheleleyo. Kanye njengenkwenkwezi ye-pop eye ngequbuliso yafika kwinombolo ye-1 kwaye awuzange uve ngayo ngaphambili. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ujonga ibali labo elingasemva, uhlala ufumana iminyaka yokusebenza nzima kunye nokuxhonywa.
Yazi ke ukuba inqanaba lakho lempumelelo liza kuza xa iinzame zifakiwe. Ayinakho kwaye ayizukwenzeka yodwa. Kukuwe ukuba ubeke umsebenzi onzima, kwaye ukuba uyakwenza oko, ngenye imini uya kubona iziqhamo zomsebenzi wakho.
Ixesha liza kufika xa uya kuthatha inyathelo ubuye umva kwaye uzive ulungile ukuzingca kwinto oyiphumeleleyo ngokuzingisa kwakho okumangalisayo.
3. Uya kwenza kakhulu ukwakha ukomelela kwakho ukuba uyaqhubeka ngaphandle kwako nakuphi na ukusilela. Kukuzilolonga okukhulu ekwakheni ukomelela kobuqu, nto leyo oyakuhamba nayo ngobomi bakho bonke.
Xa uqhubeka, uya usomelela. Uyakwazi ukumelana nayo nayiphi na impilo egqiba kwelokuba ikuphose. Uya kuthatha uhlobo lwezakhono ezithambileyo apho abanye abantu baya kujonga kuwe kwaye bazibuze ukuba uqhuba njani. Okukhona uqhubeka ixesha elide kokukhona uzimisele ngakumbi ukugqibezela iprojekthi.
Zine. Khumbula, ngelixa uqhubeka, abanye bawela ecaleni kwendlela. Xa besenza, oko kuthetha ukuba iifestile ezintsha zamathuba ziya kubonakala ezazingekho ngaphambili.
Kwakukho usuku apho wonke umntu wayegqibe kwelokuba ngumqeqeshi wobomi. Khange ndinikezele kwaye ngoku bonke abo bantu bebesenza emva phaya, bathe shwaka, kwaye okuseleyo ngabantu abazinikeleyo kwinjongo yabo. Ngoku ngabo abakhokela imarike kwaye zii-lynchpins zeshishini labo.
Xa unganikezeli, xa uqhubeka, uba ngumthombo wegunya kwi-niche yakho kwaye abanye baya kufuna ukhokelo lwakho.
5. Imalunga nohambo kwaye ayisiyiyo nje indawo ekuyiwa kuyo, kwaye sonke siyaqonda ukuba kwinqanaba lobukrelekrele kodwa inyani ebalaseleyo yeyokuba, kungokubini. Uhambo lololonwabo, kodwa indawo ekuya kuyo yeyizifundo.
Ukonwabela olu hambo kungummangaliso, kodwa ukungalugqibi kukungaze ufumane izifundo zobomi ezinyanzelekileyo ezize nenkqubo yonke ukukufundisa. Qhubeka ude ufumane loo mpendulo kwaye ude ugqibe umjikelo, kuba le nto iyinyani kukuzaliseka kokugcwalisa umjikelo.
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6. Okokugqibela, kodwa kungaphelelanga apho, nokuba uyasilela, uyaphumelela, uyaphumelela, uyawa kwaye utshise okanye nokuba sisiphi na isiphumo, uyenzile! Ungatsho ngokwakho ukuba ‘ndiyenzile! Ubuncinci ndizamile. ’Ungatsho ngokwakho ukuba uyidubulile kwaye wazama ukuba nesibindi, apho abanye bengakwenzanga kuba bevumele boyika ukuzibamba . Qhubeka ngesi sizathu sedwa. Akukho mntu unokuze ayihluthe kuwe.
Ndiyakhumbula kwiminyaka eyadlulayo, xa ndandisemncinci ndineminyaka eli-13 ubudala, mna nomhlobo wam senza ingoma ye-rap kunye nevidiyo ye-rap. Sasiyibiza ngokuba: 'Sinomculo werock.' Asikhange sibe ziimpawu ze-rap zodumo, nangona kunjalo, ndijonga ngasemva kwimemori ngothando kangangokuba sikwazile ukwenza ingoma kunye nevidiyo kwasekuqaleni. Kwirekhodi nje, iVanilla Ice yayisikhuthazo sethu.
Ke, ndithi kuwe, qhubeka. Sukuncama okwangoku, kuba ukuzama kwakho okulandelayo kunokuba yeyona nto apho uqhekeza isilingi!
