Xa wawusesikolweni, ngaba wawunoluvo lokuba xa sele uphumile kwaye ube ngumntu omkhulu, uza kuyazi ngokuzenzekelayo into oyenzayo?
Ukuba uyifumene yonke kwaye uyazi yonke into oyifunayo ukuze wenze ubomi ngokuchanekileyo?
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Ewe, nam.
Kuphela kuvela ukuba akunjalo kwaphela.
Ubomi ngamava amade okufunda, kwaye zininzi kakhulu izinto ngebabezifundisile esikolweni ezaziza kuba luncedo ngakumbi kunoPythagoras theorem okanye into eyenziwa nguHenry VIII kuye ngamnye wabafazi bakhe abanelishwa.
Ukuba sicinga nge-ins kunye nokuphuma kobomi esingazange sifundiswe ngako esikolweni ke olu luhlu alunakuphela.
Ke, masinamathele kuphuhliso lomntu kunye nolwalamano kwicala lezinto.
Nazi izakhono zobomi ekufanele ukuba sizifundile esikolweni kodwa singazange sizenze.
1. Indlela yokujongana nokusilela.
Ukusilela akunakuphepheka, kodwa uninzi lwethu aluxhotyiswanga ngokwaneleyo ukujongana nalo. Abantwana kufuneka bafundiswe indlela abakujonga ngayo ukusilela njengethuba lokufunda nokukhula, hayi into abanokuba neentloni ngayo.
2. Impumelelo ayisiyiyo yonke loo nto ngamanani.
Abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukuba impumelelo ebomini ayizi nje kwixabiso lemali kwiakhawunti yakho yebhanki okanye umlandeli wakho ubala kumajelo asekuhlaleni.
Imalunga nokunye okuninzi kunoko, njengokuzaliseka, ukuba ne umgangatho wobomi , kunye nokunceda abanye.
3. Indlela yokuthatha ukugxekwa.
Akunakwenzeka ukudlula ebomini ngaphandle kokugxekwa ngumntu ngento ethile, kwaye loo mazwi anokubetha kakhulu.
Kodwa, ucinga ukuba ukugxekwa kuyasebenza kwaye kunikwa ngokwakhayo, kunokusetyenziswa njengethuba lokufunda ngokungafaniyo nokusilela.
4. Indlela yokusombulula ungquzulwano.
Ungquzulwano yenye yeendawo ezingaphephekiyo zobomi, ke kufuneka sazi indlela yokuyisingatha kakuhle, iimeko ezahlukileyo kunye nokukhangela isisombululo esakhayo.
5. Indlela yokucela uxolo.
Sonke siyazenza iimpazamo kwaye sonke siyabenzakalisa abanye, ngabom okanye hayi. Ukuxolisa kungahamba indlela ende ekuphiliseni loo ntlungu kunye nokulungisa ubudlelwane bethu nomnye umntu.
Uxolo lwenene lufuna ukunyaniseka kunye nokuzimisela ukuvuma isenzo esingalunganga, zombini ezi zinto ziluncedo olukhulu ekugcineni ubudlelwane obunempilo.
6. Ungatsho njani ukuba hayi.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ufunde xa kufuneka uthi hayi kwinto ethile, yeyiphi imida yakho, kwaye ungathi hayi kanjani ngembeko.
7. Ukwahluka ngokwenkcubeko.
Ubuhlanga buxhaphakile kuluntu lwethu, kwaye abantwana kufuneka bafundiswe ukuxabisa, ukuhlonipha, nokubhiyozela iyantlukwano phakathi kweenkcubeko ezahlukeneyo kwihlabathi liphela nakwidolophu yabo.
Kufuneka bafundiswe ngombono ongakhethi cala, olungeleleneyo, bangoyiki ukungabi nabulungisa kwixesha lethu elidlulileyo, kodwa bajonge ngethemba kwikamva eliqaqambileyo.
8. Isazisi sesini.
Kubalulekile ukufundisa abantwana ukuba zininzi iindlela ezahlukeneyo umntu anokuchonga ngazo, kwaye sonke sivumelekile ukuba sithathe isigqibo sokuba sifuna ukubuphila njani ubomi bethu kwaye sibubonise kwihlabathi.
Kwakhona, konke oku kuya kuhlonipha.
9.Ululawula njani uxinzelelo.
Uxinzelelo yingxaki enkulu enokubangela umonakalo emzimbeni nasengqondweni. Iindlela zokulawula uxinzelelo ziya kuseta abantwana endaweni efanelekileyo yokujongana nemiceli mngeni yobomi eya kuyiphosa kubo.
10. Imfundo yesini ethembekileyo.
Kufuneka siqale ukunyaniseka ngakumbi kubantwana malunga nezinto eziyinyani zesondo, kwaye nokuba kungavuya kangakanani, kunye nendlela yokwenza ngokukhuselekileyo.
11. Imvume nentlonipho.
Abantwana abancinci kufuneka bafundiswe ukuba bangangeni kwindawo yabanye. Abantwana abadala kufuneka bafundiswe indlela yokujonga imvume kunye nokuba liqabane lesini elihloniphekileyo.
12. Indlela yokunciphisa inkunkuma.
Ulawulo lweNkunkuma yingxaki enkulu kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, kwaye ukuba asilumkanga sonke sizakutshona kuwo.
Abantwana kufuneka bafundiswe ngomgquba, malunga nezinto ezinokuphinda zisetyenziswe kwaye ezingenakho, malunga nenkqubo yokurisayikilisha, kunye nendlela yokunciphisa inkunkuma kunye nokusetyenziswa kweplastiki ngokukodwa.
13. Unxibelelana njani nezilwanyana.
Kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje, uninzi lwethu luchithwe ngokungummangaliso kwindalo. Sizibona siyinto eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo kwezinye izilwanyana esabelana nazo ngeplanethi yethu, kwaye uninzi lwabantwana alwazi nokubetha inja.
Abantwana kufuneka bafundiswe indlela yokunxibelelana nezilwanyana, ngokuzola, ukungahambi ngokungxama, ukubaphatha ngentlonipho kwaye ungazithandi izinto zokudlala ezinobuqhetseba.
14. Izinto eziyinyani zenyama kunye neemveliso zobisi.
Abantwana kufuneka bazi ukuba inyama kunye neemveliso zobisi abazityayo zivela phi, kwaye kufuneka bafundiswe malunga neemeko ezininzi zezo zilwanyana zigcinwa kuzo.
Oko akutsho ukuba bonke kufuneka bakhuthazwe ukuba batye imifuno okanye i-vegan - nangona ukunciphisa inyama kunye nokusetyenziswa kobisi kubalulekile kwikamva lomhlaba wethu.
Kungenxa yoko le nto ndinemicimbi yokuthemba
Kodwa kufuneka baziswe ukuba ezi mveliso zivela kwizinto eziphilayo, aziveli nje kwivenkile ngomlingo. Kwaye kuya kufuneka baboniswe ukuba benze njani ukhetho olufanelekileyo kunye nemveliso evela kwizilwanyana eziye zanyangwa ngabantu.
15. Uvota njani kwaye isebenza njani inkqubo yokuvota.
Ukuvota kunye nokubhalisela ukuvota kunokudida kakhulu, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu. Izikolo kufuneka zifundise abantwana malunga nendlela esebenza ngayo le nkqubo apho bahlala khona, kwaye kutheni kubalulekile ukuvota ukuze ilizwi lakho livakale kwaye izimvo zakho zimelwe.
16. Ungazibona njani iindaba ezingeyonyani.
Iindaba ezingeyonyani zikuyo yonke indawo, kwaye zinokusibekela umbono wehlabathi.
Abantwana kufuneka bafundiswe indlela yokuchonga iindaba ezingezizo, kunye nendlela yokuqinisekisa izinto abazifundayo kunokuba bathathe nje ngexabiso. Oku kuya kubafundisa nokucinga okunzulu esisakhono sobomi esibalulekileyo abanaso.
17. Imbali nenkcubeko yabemi bomthonyama belizwe ohlala kulo.
Kumazwe abonakaliswe ngokoloniyaliyali, abemi bomthonyama bahlala bengakhathalelwanga, ngokungathi imbali yelizwe yaqala mzuzu ukufika kweekoloniyali zokuqala, endaweni yeenkulungwane okanye zeminyaka ngaphambili.
Zonke izikolo kufuneka zifundise abantwana malunga nembali yomhlaba abahlala kuwo, nangona kunjalo inempikiswano, kunye nenkcubeko yabanini bayo bemveli.
18. Uyikhulisa njani imifuno yeziqhamo.
Ukukhulisa esakho isiqhamo kunye nemifuno, nokuba unayo ifestile okanye igadi iphela onayo, ngamava anelisayo.
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Kwaye ukuba unayo indawo yemifuno efanelekileyo, inokuba yindlela ebiza kakhulu yokutya ukutya okunesondlo okugcwele iziqhamo kunye nemifuno.
19. Ukulima igadi.
Ngaphandle kwegadi ngeenjongo zokukhulisa ukutya, kufuneka sifundiswe iziseko zendlela yokukhathalela izityalo kunye nendlela yokubona iintyatyambo eziqhelekileyo, izityalo kunye nemithi.
Ukulima igadi yinto entle yokuchitha ixesha, ukukhupha emoyeni omtsha wenze umthambo omangalisayo.
Kunokucamngca kwaye ukubona iziqhamo zomsebenzi wakho zikhula kunomvuzo.
20. Ungakudla njani ukutya kokutya?
Ukuba unokuzifumana ukwimeko ekhohlisayo, ukwazi iintlobo zeberry kunye nesityalo ongasitya kwindawo yakho yendawo inokuba ngumsindisi wobomi.
21. Izakhono ezisisiseko zokusinda.
Ngaphandle kwento yokutya xa usendle, abantwana kufuneka bafundiswe ukwenza umlilo, babophe amaqhina asisiseko, kwaye bafumane indawo yokuhlala xa befuna.
22. Uncedo lokuqala olusisiseko.
Uyenza njani i-CPR, ulibopha njani inxeba, kufuneka wenze ntoni xa kunokubakho ingoziā¦ ezi zizakhono ekulula ukuzifunda, kodwa ezinokusindisa ubomi.
23. Zeziphi iziqhamo kunye nemifuno ngexesha lonyaka.
Ukutya iziqhamo kunye nemifuno ngexesha lonyaka kunceda ukunxibelelana nomhlaba kunye nomjikelo oqhelekileyo wamaxesha onyaka. Kungcono kakhulu nakwisijikelezi-langa.
Ke, sonke kufuneka sifundiswe ngeziqhamo kunye nemifuno ekulungele ukuvunwa ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo onyaka, kwaye zeziphi iziqhamo kunye nemifuno elinywa kwalapha endaweni yokungenisa elizweni.
24. Ukupheka okunesondlo, ukutya okunesondlo.
Ezinye izikolo zifundisa ukupheka okusisiseko, kodwa izakhono zokupheka kufuneka zifundiswe njengesiqhelo, kugxilwe kwindlela yokwenza ukutya okumnandi okunezithako ngaphandle kwezithako ezintsha, ezingalungiswanga.
25. Isiseko se-DIY.
Izakhono ezisisiseko ngebrashi yepeyinti, isando, isarha, kunye ne-drill zizinto zonke ezinokuzuzwa ngumntu wonke ngokwazi.
Ukukwazi ukujongana nengxaki ngokukhawuleza ngokwakho kunokuba ubize abazali bakho okanye ingcali kunokugcina ixesha elininzi kunye nemali.
26. Ukugcinwa kwekhaya.
Izinto ezinje ngokutshintsha ibhalbhu yesibane, indlela yokujonga ukuba ialam yomsi iyasebenza, indlela yokuthatha imitha yokufunda, kunye nendlela yokujonga ukuba isicima mlilo siyasebenza zizinto ezisisiseko ekufuneka sonke sizazi.
27. Uyigcina njani ibhayisekile okanye imoto.
Sonke sifuna uhlobo oluthile lwesithuthi ukuze sijikeleze. Ke, kuya kufuneka sifunde ukuba isebenza njani ibhayisekile kunye nendlela yokuyigcina, ukutshintsha ivili, njl.
Kwaye kufuneka sifumane isiseko kulondolozo lweemoto, kunye nokuqonda okuyisiseko malunga nendlela esebenza ngayo imoto.
28. Iinyani ze-sweatshops kunye nendlela yokuthenga ngokuziphatha.
Abantwana kufuneka bafundiswe ukuba baxabise abantu abangabantu ngaphezu kwesipaji sabo.
Kuya kufuneka baxelelwe ngeemeko zokusebenza kumazwe amaninzi angaphuhlanga apho iimveliso zehlabathi zentshona zenziwa, kunye nendlela yokuphepha ukuthenga iimveliso eziqhubela phambili ingxaki.
Kuya kufuneka bafundiswe malunga nokuthenga kwalapha ekhaya, ngokuziphatha, nangamasekeni apho kunokwenzeka khona ukunceda umhlaba kunye nabanye abantu.
29. Ungazijonga njani iimpahla zakho.
Kule mihla, abantu abaninzi bajonga iimpahla njengezilahlwayo, into enokuthengwa ngexabiso eliphantsi, inxitywe amaxesha ambalwa, ize ilahlwe.
Abantwana kufuneka bafundiswe ukuba iimpahla kufuneka ziphathwe ngentlonipho engakumbi. Kuya kufuneka bafunde malunga nokuba zingaphi iimpahla ekufuneka zihlanjwe kunye namanye amaqhinga okuqinisekisa ukuba zihlala ixesha elide.
30. Iindidi zemisebenzi ezikhoyo kwihlabathi langoku.
I-21stInkulungwane ivule amathuba emisebenzi kunye neendlela zokusebenza ezingazange zabakho ngaphambili.
Izikolo kufuneka zigcine kwaye zifundise abantwana malunga nemisebenzi eyahlukeneyo evulelekileyo kubo, hayi nje iindlela zesiko.
31. Udliwanondlebe olufanelekileyo.
Sonke siza kufuneka sidlule kudliwanondlebe lomsebenzi ngolunye uhlobo okanye olunye ebomini bethu.
Ukuziqhelanisa neendlela zodliwanondlebe esikolweni, kunye nendlela yokuphendula imibuzo esemgangathweni enjengokuthi 'Ndixelele ngengxaki oyicombulule ngokusebenzisana' kunokunceda ukunika abantwana ithuba kwikamva.
32. Ungazilawula njani ii-imeyile zakho.
Into sonke esisokolayo nayo, kodwa ngekhe kube nzima ukuyazi ukuba siqale siselula. Ikhuthaza umbutho, ukubeka phambili, kunye nezakhono zolawulo lwexesha.
33. Ungaba kanjani nobudlelwane obusempilweni namajelo eendaba ezentlalo.
Imidiya yokuncokola ikuyo yonke indawo kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukuyiphepha. Kodwa kunokuba ngumlutha kwaye kuyonakalise impilo-ntle yethu yengqondo, ke kuya kufuneka sifundiswe ukuba siyisebenzisa njani impilo.
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34. Ungazikhusela njani kwi-Intanethi.
Umhlaba wethu obonakalayo ubeka imiceli mngeni yokwenene kukhuseleko nakukhuseleko lwethu. Ukufunda indlela yokukhusela imfihlo yakho kwi-intanethi, indlela yokubona kunye nokuthintela ubuqhetseba, kunye nendlela yokujongana nokuxhatshazwa kwi-Intanethi okanye ukungcungcutheka zezinye zezakhono ekufuneka sizifundile.
35. Izibonelelo zokufunda ulwimi lwasemzini.
Okokugqibela kodwa kungaphelelanga apho, abantwana akufuneki bafundiswe nje iilwimi kufuneka baboniswe ukuba kutheni ukufunda ulwimi lwasemzini kuyinto entle kangaka.
Yandisa ingqondo yakho kunye ne-horizons, ikunceda uvule yonke enye inkcubeko okanye iinkcubeko ezininzi, kwaye izise ithuba elimangalisayo ngayo.
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