Xa ukukhula kuluva kunzima: ii-synchronicities, Resistance kunye neHero's Journey

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Kukho ulindelo oluqhelekileyo-ngakumbi kwizangqa ezaziyo, ngokomoya-ukuba nje ukuba sihambe kwindlela yethu eyiyo, indalo iyakusivulela yonke iminyango kwaye siya kuba nakho ukuhamba ngaphandle komzamo wethu. Njengengca ekhula ngokulula, injalo nendaleko yethu kubomi obungcono obulindelwe ukuba buthambe kwaye buthe nkqo. Kodwa ngaba oku kulindelwe kuyasebenza kwaye kuyasinceda?



Ukulindelwa kokungakhathali kubangelwa yinto eqwalaselweyo kakuhle, eyokuba indlela yethu yokwenyani ithunyelwe ngomqondiso synchronicities . Ukufundwa kwezi 'zinto zinentsingiselo enentsingiselo' kubuyela kugqirha wengqondo waseSwitzerland, uCarl Jung. Ngenye imini, ngelixa isigulana esinengqiqo sasimxelela ngephupha apho wanikwa igolide yegolide, inambuzane efanayo icofwe ngefestile. UJung ubambe inambuzane wayinika inenekazi: 'Nasi isikhafu sakho,' utshilo. Oku kwenzeka okumangalisayo kuye kwavakala kunentsingiselo kuye kangangokuba 'kwagqobhoza umngxuma onqwenelekayo kwingqiqo yakhe.'

Le nto ifunyenwe ichaphazelekayo kungekuphela ngabagqirha bezengqondo, kodwa abafuna ngokomoya bazo zonke iintlobo. Ngokukhawuleza xa siqala ukufumana indlela yethu, sihlangabezana neziganeko zemilingo, ezingabalulekanga kuphela, kodwa ziluncedo. Thina 'ngokungacwangciswanga' siyifumana incwadi okanye inqaku eliphendula eyethu imibuzo , “ngempazamo” siqubisana nomntu oya kusinceda sifezekise injongo yethu, okanye sifumane uphawu oluthile oluvelayo olukhokelela kwindlu elungileyo, umntu olungileyo, uhlobo olululo lomsebenzi.



ungathetha ngantoni nomhlobo wakho

Isengachazwanga, nangona kunjalo iyinyani, umgaqo wokuvumelanisa usebenza apha, odibanisa umhlaba wethu wangaphakathi namava angaphandle. Okukhona sihambelana, kokukhona sikwi 'flow', kokukhona sifumana amava okuhambelana.

Ngaba oku, nangona kunjalo, kuthetha ukuba ukukhula komntu kuhlala kulula njengokuhamba ngendlela evulekileyo? Ngaba oku kuthetha ukuba siza kuziva sonwabile kwaye sixhaswe kuyo yonke indlela ngelixa sisaphumelela ubomi obungcono? Ngaba oku kuthetha ukuba nanini na sihlangabezana nezithintelo kunye nobunzima, sikwindlela engalunganga?

Iindawo zokuya xa udikwe ngumhlobo wakho

Ukuze siphendule le mibuzo, kufuneka siqonde into ebalulekileyo malunga nobomi bobomi uqobo. Phakathi kwinkulungwane yama-20, isazi ngeentsomi uJoseph Campbell wafunda iintsomi, iintsomi, kunye neentsomi ezivela kwihlabathi liphela, wafika kwisigqibo esimangalisayo: onke amabali emhlabeni abelana ngolwakhiwo olufanayo, awathi 'Uhambo lweqhawe.' (Ukuba ngumbalisi ngokwam, ndizamile ukuyila ibali elingalifanelanga. Ukuzama ukuba ngummeli kamtyholi, bendingenako! Nanini na xa ndiza nento eyayingaphandle kwesikimu seCampbellian, yasilela ukuba Yayiyincwadi “yemfonomfono” nje kuphela.

Olu lwakhiwo lusisiseko sebali, olwafunyanwa nguCampbell, lungene nzulu kulwazini lwethu, kubonakala ngathi lukhona i uyilo, kungekuphela nje ngamabali angeyonyani, kodwa nobomi uqobo. Ngamanye amagama, ubomi bethu buhambelana nesikimu seCampbellian!

Ndikhumbula incoko ebangela umdla noGqirha Raymond Moody, utata wezifundo ezikufutshane nokufa, owathi le yinto eyathethwa ngabantu abaye basweleka ekliniki: 'Ngexesha lokufa, ubomi buyekile ukuba libali.' Ubomi libali, elifikelela esiphelweni ngalo mzuzu wokufa, xa iingcinga zexesha kunye nendawo zibhubha kwaye into eyahluke ngokupheleleyo ithatha indawo.

Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):

Logama nje sisaphila, ubomi bethu ngamabali, esineplani yawo: Uhambo lweQhawe.

Njenge iqhawe lalo naliphi na ibali , xa silandela eyethu iminqweno ebomini, sihlangana nabahlobo abasincedayo. Kodwa sikwadibana neentshaba, kunye nokujongana neemvavanyo nezilingo ezininzi. Ngaphandle kwezi, asinakomelela kwaye asinakho ukuvela.

ukwenza into ongafuniyo ukuyenza

Yicinge njengoqeqesho lokunganyangeki. Ukuba sifuna ukukhulisa izihlunu ezomeleleyo, kufuneka sibanike ukuxhathisa kufuneka sityhalele phezulu okanye siphakamise iintsimbi ezingaphandle kwendawo yethu yokuthuthuzela, okanye kufuneka senze ukuphindaphinda okanye amaxesha amade kunala sele siqhele. Onke amandla endalo anokumelana nawo. Ukuba sibeka injongo enamandla yokwenza utshintsho olunamandla ebomini bethu, sinokulindela uncedo, kodwa kananjalo ukuxhathisa! Ukuthetha ngokwengqondo, ukudibana nokuchasana kunokuba luncedo ngeendlela ezininzi. Isibonisa indawo yethu uloyiko kunye nobuthathaka, kwaye kufuneka sifunde ntoni ukuze sikhulele kwinqanaba elitsha lobukho.

Ke ngoko, akufuneki sinikezele kwaye sikholelwe ukuba sisendleleni engeyiyo, kuba nje sihlangabezana nenkcaso kunye namava obunzima! Ndinomhlobo otyekele kakhulu kwizinto zokomoya, okholelwa ukuba nanini na xa esendleleni elungileyo, izinto kufuneka zenzeke ngokungazami. Umzekelo, waqala ukukhula imifuno egadini yakhe, kuba waziva ebizelwe ukuba aphile ubomi bendalo. Nangona kunjalo, xa ii-slugs zitya imveliso yazo yokuqala, wayeka esithi 'ibingafanelanga ukuba njalo.' Oku asikokucinga ngobuchule. Endaweni yoko, ngewayesungule indlela enobuntu kunye nezilwanyana-yokukhusela imifuno kwii-slugs kwaye wabelana ngeziphumo zakhe nabanye abagadi.

Kulungile, usenokubuza, kodwa singahlula njani phakathi kokuchasana okuqhelekileyo ebesifanele ukoyisa, kwiimpawu zokuba sikwindlela engeyiyo? Lo ngumbuzo osemthethweni kwaye ubalulekile. Impendulo ilele ngokujonga yonke imeko ngokubanzi. Ukuba indlela esele singene kuyo ayikhange izive ilungile kwasekuqaleni, ukuba asikhange sive ubizo oluthile kuyo, okanye amava alungelelanisiweyo aluncedo, oko kubonakala ngathi yindlela ephosakeleyo.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba siziva sonwabile kwaye sinenjongo yokuqalisa kwaye safumana uncedo apha endleleni, kodwa saphinda saqala ukufumana ubunzima kunye nokumelana, singaziphatha zonke izinto ezimbi ezibonakala njengezilo kwintsomi- le miqobo senzelwe ukoyisa. Indlela enjalo iya kusenza somelele kwaye sibe nobulumko ekugqibeleni.

Ewe, lukhona olunye utshaba lwasendulo nolunamandla olunokusenza siziva singalunganga nokuba ubomi bujongise kwelona liphezulu. Olo tshaba uloyiko . Ukulungiswa ukuhlala ngaphakathi kwezithintelo zeemeko ezaziwayo, njengabantu siyanyanzeleka ukuba sikhathazeke xa ubomi butshintsha, nokuba kungcono okanye kubi. Ke ngoko, bophelela kwaye uyeke uloyiko esijolise kulo kumaxesha esiphithiphithi, kodwa ingenza njani enye into ukuba umntu omtsha angazalwa ukuba, okokuqala, asikuvumeli ukuqhekeza okudala…

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