Kuhle kakhulu kuthi sonke sinomhlobo ongabonakali ngathi uxinezelekile okanye ukhathazekile malunga nantoni na. Bayawonwabela umsebenzi wabo, bahlala bethandwa kwaye behlonitshwa ngoontanga babo kunye nabantu abasebenza nabo, abayikhathaleli nokusebenza ixesha elongezelelekileyo, kwaye bahlekise ngombono wokwenza nantoni na abangayifuniyo.
Uninzi lwethu alunakunxulumana naloo ngqondo. Sibekiwe kwimeko yokuba sinyamezele zonke izangqa ezisithoba zesihogo ngenxa yoxanduva lwabantu abadala njengokuhlawula irente kunye nokuqinisekisa ukuba izilwanyana zasekhaya kunye nabantwana bethu bayondliwa kwaye banxityisiwe okanye nantoni na.
Kulungile oko kububudenge, kwaye umhlobo wakho opholileyo-opholileyo unoluvo olulungileyo.
Ukuba wakhe watyhalelwa kwinqanaba apho yonke into oyifunayo yayilungile enye into ukukucebisa ngaphaya komphetho uye kumhlaba othi 'fuck this shit', kodwa ayikaze yenzeke loo nto, mhlawumbi awuqhelananga ne-catharsis evela ekwenzeni ngokuchanekileyo lonto.
Yintoni ebhetele nangakumbi kunemvakalelo yangoku yokoneliseka evela ekujikeni nasekuhambeni kuyo nayiphi na into ongenangqondo oyilwisayo kukuba ukwenza oko kulungile ngokwenyani kwimpilo yakho yengqondo, kwaye nantsi indlela:
KuXhobisa
Andazi abantu abaninzi abangakhange bazive ngathi bathathelwe amandla abo buqu ngumntu okwisikhundla segunya umntu ekufanele ukuba angenise kuye, nokuba loo mntu ebephosisile.
Ngaba ukhe wasebenzela i-imbecile engafezekanga enokuthi ifumane kuphela umsebenzi wayo wolawulo ngenxa yomtshato? Kukhathaza kangakanani ukuba unqwale kwaye uncume kwaye ulandele umkhombandlela wabo xa usazi ukuba yonke into abayithethayo ayilunganga, kwaye iyisidenge, kwaye uza kugqiba ukuyicheba?
Elinye lawona maqhinga mahle endiwafumeneyo xa ndandineminyaka engamashumi amabini yayikukuya soloko ulungele ukuhamba . Oko akuthethi ukuba licebo elihle ukuyeka kuloo ndawo nanini na xa umntu ekuphethe kakubi, kodwa endaweni yokuba ungoyiki ukubabiza xa indlela abaziphatha ngayo ingamkelekanga.
Ukuba bakuphatha ngokungenantlonelo, yenze icace loo nto kubo, kwaye ubazise ukuba ayamkelekanga. Ukuba izimvo zabo azikho semxholweni kwaye ziya kuyonakalisa iprojekthi yakho (okanye inkampani iyonke), yazise loo nto- ngokuzithemba- nakubaphathi babo, ukuba kukho imfuneko.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, baya kuthathelwa ingqalelo yinto yokuba ukhe wazama ukuma umhlaba wakho, kodwa ekugqibeleni baya kukuhlonipha ngokwenza njalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngezihlandlo ezinqabileyo, unokufumana ukuba ukhethe phakathi kokuqhubeka nokunyamezela i-idiocy yabo okanye ukupakisha izinto zakho kunye nokuphuma, kodwa ngaba kubi kakhulu? Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka ukwazi ukwenza kanye loo nto. Akukho msebenzi kwihlabathi onelungelo lokuphulukana nomphefumlo wakho ngenxa yomvuzo.
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Uyakulala Kakuhle
Ngaba ukhe wakwimeko apho uphume khona ngaphandle kwesiqingatha sengqondo yakho unexhala, uhamba malunga nayo yonke imeko embi kakhulu ukuba 'uthini-ukuba' imeko onokucinga ngayo? Ukuba unayo, mhlawumbi uyazi kakuhle into yokuba ezo ngcinga zivuthayo azenzeki nje emini - zixhaphake kakhulu ebusuku, xa kufanele zama ukulala ngokwaneleyo.
Ukuphuthelwa yenye yeendlela ezininzi ezibonisa uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo emzimbeni wakho, kwaye yeyona nto iyingozi. Ukungalali kuqhele ukusetyenziswa njengesixhobo sokuhlukumeza, kwaye xa uhamba ungalalanga ixesha elide, kokukhona uya kuba nexhala kwaye unxunguphale kwaye uphazamiseke.
Ngaphezulu kwayo yonke loo nto, ukungalali kuchaphazela amajoni akho omzimba kunye neemvakalelo zakho, ke ukuba amaxhala akugcina uphaphile ubusuku emva kobusuku, kunokwenzeka ukuba ugule kunokuba ubephumla ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukuvumela zonke iingcinezelo, iingcinga zobuntu ezijikeleza entlokweni yakho zikuvumela ukuba ufumane ukuphumla okuphucukileyo ukuze ukwazi ukujongana nobomi obukugcinele usuku olulandelayo. Ukucamngca ngokuhlwa okanye i-yoga ethambileyo kuyanceda ngokumangalisayo koku, ngakumbi ukuba ucinga ngokukhokelwa okukunceda ukuba ubenombono wokukhathazeka kwakho njengokuvuthela kude kuwe ngalo lonke ixesha kuvela.
Uya kuba nokuzithemba okukhulu (kunye nobudlelwane obuphilileyo)
Ngaphandle kokuba ungumBuddhist ozinikeleyo oye wafikelela kwinqanaba lokukhanyiselwa ngokukhethekileyo, amathuba okuba wenze ezinye izinto ezinamathele kakhulu kwabanye abantu. Ezo zinto ziqhotyoshelweyo azibi kubi ngokwemvelo njengoko iibhondi zobuhlobo kunye nokubandakanyeka kwezothando kungazisa uvuyo olukhulu ebomini bethu. Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, bomelele kangangokuba uzimisele ukwamkela ukuphathwa okwehlazo ngabantu abathi bakukhathalele, ke ezo ziqhotyoshelweyo zenza okubi kakhulu kunokulungileyo.
Uninzi lwabantu luzifumana luvaleleke kwiimeko ezimbi xa lusamkela impatho-mbi kuba lisoyika into eza kwenzeka ukuba ayenzi njalo. Umzekelo, umntu unokunyamezela iqabane elithandanayo ukuphathwa gadalala ngokwasemoyeni, ngokwasengqondweni nangokwasemzimbeni kuba boyika ukuba bodwa. Baza kuchaza ukungaziphathi kakuhle komntu kubo njengento enesiphoso sabo ukuba ukuba bebelunge bhetele, ngandlel 'ithile, ngekhe babekhona ekufumaneni olo nyango.
Nyisa lonto. Ngokukrakra.
Ukuba iqabane lakho likuxabisile ngokwenene, baya kuthi bakulungele ukujongana nemicimbi xa, hayi, ubabonisa. Ukuba abekho, ke abafanelekanga ukuba bagcinwe. Olu hlobo 'luthando' lwenza ububi obungaphezulu kokulungileyo: endaweni yokuba kubudlelwane obuxhasayo nomntu okuthandayo nokwamkelayo ukuba ungubani, uya kuphela kwisibini uqagele yonke into oyenzayo (jonga uxinzelelo + lokungalali apha ngasentla iyakukuchaphazela njani loo nto), kwaye uyikholelwe loo nto nguwe Unobangela wale nkohlakalo kunye nokuxhatshazwa kuya kunxiba isiqu sakho phantsi.
Okulusizi kukuba, sihlala sinyamezela izinto ezisenzakalisa ixesha elide kunokuba besifanele, xa endaweni yoko kufuneka sibeke isimilo esingamkelekanga kwakamsinya nje ukuba sivele. Uyalikhumbula eli cebiso lokuhlala ulungele ukuhamba? Oko akupheleli nje kwimisebenzi enetyhefu kuya kuye nakubani na ebomini bakho ongakuphathi kakuhle.
Baninzi abanye abahlobo kunye nabathandi ngaphandle, kwaye bonke baya kuba sempilweni kakhulu kuwe kunokunyamezela i-jackassery entle.
Ukuba ujongana nemeko ekushiya usongelwe kukuxhalaba kunye noloyiko, thatha ithutyana lokucinga ukuba ungangubani ngaphandle kwalonto ebomini bakho. Ukuba uyayithanda imbono yokuba ngulo mntu, ukuba uyayiqonda inyani inzulu yokuba ewe, unokwazi ngokupheleleyo ukutshintsha ilizwe lakho, emva koko yenze.
Kukho intetho ehamba nento ethi, 'Usisigqibo esinye kude nobomi obahluke ngokupheleleyo'. Ewe, ukuba sempilweni, ukonwaba, indlela yobomi iqala ngamagama amabini alula: 'mayimke le' .
Ngaba unesi simo sengqondo okanye unqwenela ukuba wenze njalo? Shiya inkcazo engezantsi uze usixelele konke malunga nayo.
