Ngaba ucinga ukuba uyazi ukuba wena nabanye abantu nisebenza njani? Cinga kwakhona njengoko singena kwezinye zezona zinto zinomdla kunye nokuvula amehlo ezinokuthi zikothuse kwaye zikothuse.
1. Uninzi lokuhleka luvela kulo mntu uthethayo
Sihlala sicinga ukuba ukuhleka kuyenzeka xa sisiva into ehlekisayo, kodwa uphando lubonakalisile ukuba ngabantu abathethayo abahleka kakhulu- iipesenti ezingama-46 kunabaphulaphuli babo - imvelaphi .
Kutheni kubalulekile: ungaze uphinde ucinge ukuba umntu ohleka iziqhulo zakhe akahlekisi. Kwaye ukuba ufuna ukonwabela ukugigitheka ngokwakho, kungcono ukuba uyinxalenye yencoko.
2. Iinkumbulo zethu zitshintsha ixesha ngalinye xa zikhunjulwa
Into ocinga ngayo njengememori yolo suku elunxwemeni yimifanekiso bhanyabhanya eyakhiwe ngokutsha etshintsha (ngamanye amaxesha okuninzi, kodwa ngokubanzi ngobuqili) ngalo lonke ixesha ikhunjulwa - imvelaphi .
Kutheni kubalulekile: awusoze wayithemba ngokupheleleyo inkumbulo yakho xa kufikwa kwiinkcukacha ezichanekileyo. Zama kwaye uyikhumbule le nto, ukuba akukho enye into, nini ukuxabana nomntu ngaphezulu kwento eye yehla ngethuba elithile.
3. Sijonga ngaphezulu kweMpembelelo yezeMvakalelo yeziGaneko zeXesha elizayo
Sibi kakhulu xa siqikelela ukuba kulungile okanye kubi kangakanani na ukuba isiganeko esiza kubakho kwixesha elizayo siza kuziva. Oku kwaziwa njengempembelelo yocalucalulo kwaye yiyo loo nto sonke siphupha ngokuphumelela iLotto kwaye sisoyika ukuphulukana nomsebenzi kakhulu- imvelaphi .
Kutheni ibalulekile: xa sikholelwa ukuba into inokuba ngcono kakhulu okanye ibe mbi kakhulu kunokuba inokuba njalo, inokuba negalelo kuthi ekwenzeni ukhetho olubi.
4. Abanye abantu badalwe ngamavila, kodwa bahlala bonwabile
Kukho isikolo sokucinga esiphakamisa ukuba abantu abazinzileyo kwisiphumo esaneleyo kunokuba sisiphumo esihle (esaziwa njengabanelisa) baphela umxholo ongaphezulu kunye nokukhetha kwabo kunabo bafuna ukwandisa yonke into enokwenzeka ebomini babo (eyaziwa ngokuba ngabakhulu) - imvelaphi .
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Kutheni kubalulekile: mhlawumbi kufanele siyeke ukujonga abantu esicinga ukuba 'bayazilungisa' njengamavila kwaye siqwalasele indlela enokuthi ngamanye amaxesha ibe yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokonwaba.
5. Phantse silikhoboka lokufuna ulwazi
I-dopamine ye-neurotransmitter isenza sizive silungile kwaye kusenzeka njalo xa siqhuba ukuba sifune isixa esikhulu solwazi, nokuba akukho njongo yoko- imvelaphi .
Kutheni kubalulekile: sichitha ixesha elininzi sihamba, sihlaziya imithombo yeendaba zentlalo, kwaye sinamathele kuthungelwano lweendaba kunanini na ngaphambili, kodwa ayimfuneko okanye isempilweni.
6. Ingqondo Engaziwayo Iba neZinto Ezide Kude Phambi Kokuqonda
Xa sijamelene nezigqibo zalo naluphi na uhlobo, iingqondo zethu ezingazi nto yijonge yonke into ngaphambi kokuba siqale ngokuzikhethela ukwenza ukhetho lwethu - imvelaphi .
Kutheni ibalulekile: Rhoqo kunokuba kungenjalo, oko sikubizayo intuition yethu wenza umsebenzi olungileyo wokuthatha izigqibo ezichanekileyo kwaye wenza njalo ngaphambi kokuba iingqondo zethu ezaziwayo zigqibe.
7. Ukutya, isini kunye neengozi maze kuqala kwiingqondo zethu
Ndiyabulela kwizigidi zeminyaka yemeko yokuzivelela kwezinto, ubuchopho bethu bubonakala ngathi bunzima ukukwazi ukuvavanya izinto njengokutya, iqabane okanye usongelo. Kungenxa yoko le nto sifumana imifanekiso yokutya, iingcebiso zesondo, kunye nengozi enyanzelisa kwaye kunzima ukungahoyi- imvelaphi .
Kutheni kubalulekile: Kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje, ngabarhwebi abathe bakusebenzisa ngokupheleleyo oku ngeentengiso ezipakishwe zizele yimifanekiso enomtsalane kunye nezinto ezinobungozi.
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8. Sisoloko sibona oko silindele ukukubona
Akukho ndlela yokuba iingqondo zethu ezinokuqonda zinokuze zilufumane lonke ulwazi olunokusingqongileyo kwaye oku kukhokelela kukungaboni ngokungakhathali, apho sizijonga khona izinto ezibonakala ngathi zicacile kuba siphazanyiswa yenye into, okanye asilindelanga ukubona ukungalunganga - imvelaphi .
Kutheni kubalulekile: asinakulindela ukuba sazi yonke into esijikelezileyo, kwaye akufuneki simangaliswe xa abanye bengayiboni into esijongileyo ebusweni.
9. Singazikhumbula kuphela izinto ezi-3 okanye ezi-4 ezitsha ngeXesha
Iinkumbulo zethu zexesha elifutshane zinokugcina kuphela izinto ezi-3 okanye ezi-4 ngexesha kwaye kufuneka sigcine iinyani ezihlaziyayo de zibe nako ukwenza ixesha elide kwiindlela zethu zobuchopho. imvelaphi .
Kutheni kubalulekile: yiyo loo nto usokolisa ukukhumbula amagama abantu kwimizuzwana nje emva kokuba wazisiwe okokuqala.
10. Abantwana baNgcono ekulibaziseni isiQinisekiso kwindawo eThembakeleyo
Xa abaphandi bephinda bajonga kwakhona iMarshmallow Experiment edumileyo kwaye bongeze ukujija kuyo, bafumanisa ukuba abantwana abachanabeke kwindawo ethembekileyo babelunge ngakumbi ekulibaziseni ukwaneliseka kunabo babonakaliswe kwimeko yokungathembeki- imvelaphi .
Kutheni kubalulekile: xa abazali bexelela umntwana ukuba bazokwenza into, kungcono bayilandele okanye umntwana angayeka ukubakholelwa kwaye angabinakho ukulibazisa ukuzanelisa.
11. Imisebenzi yokuDibeneyo yokuNxibelelana kwabaNtu kumaQela
Xa amaqela abantu ethatha inxaxheba kwisenzo esinye, kunokwenzeka ukuba basebenzisane kwimisebenzi elandelayo, nokuba ukuzincama kuyafuneka ukuze kulunge konke - imvelaphi .
Kutheni kubalulekile: ukufumana amaqela abantu ukuba balandele isithethe esithile okanye indlela yokuziphatha kwakha amaqhina anokukhokelela ekubeni babe nentliziyo epheleleyo kwintsebenziswano yexesha elizayo (ngcono okanye okubi).
12. Sizamana noNxibelelwano olungaphezulu kwe-150 lwezeNtlalo
Kucetyiswa ukuba abantu bakufumanise kunzima ukubanalo naluphi na unxibelelwano olunentsingiselo nabantu abangaphezu kwe-150 ngexesha, inani elaziwa njengeNombolo kaDunbar- imvelaphi .
Kutheni kubalulekile: unokuba namakhulu, okanye amawaka 'abahlobo' kuFacebook, kodwa xa kuziwa kubomi bokwenyani, ukuba ufuna ukwenza unxibelelwano olutsha lokwenyani, unokufumanisa ukuba kufuneka ulahle ezimbalwa ezikhoyo ukwenza isithuba .
13. Abantu baSebenzisa ngokuLula ulwazi oluBoniswe ngeFomu yamaBali
Singcono ekuqondeni iikhonsepthi kunye nokukhumbula iinyani xa sifundiswa ngokubaliswa kwamabali endaweni yokuqonda izinto ezingekhoyo, iinyani kunye namanani- imvelaphi .
Kutheni kubalulekile: nokuba uzama ukufundisa abantwana isifundo esibalulekileyo okanye uthengise imveliso kumthengi, zama ukufaka ibali kwinkqubo.
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14. Nokuba Ukucinga Kwenkqubela Kuyasikhuthaza
Rhoqo, konke okufunekayo ukusikhuthaza yinkohliso yokuba senza inkqubela kwiinjongo zethu- imvelaphi .
Kutheni kubalulekile nje: ukuba singakhohlisa iingqondo zethu ekucingeni ukuba senza inkqubela phambili, singazikhuthaza ekusebenzeni nzima ekufezekiseni amaphupha kunye neenjongo zethu.
15. Iingqondo Zethu Zichitha iipesenti ezingama-30 zokuHamba kwexesha
Ngokwesiqhelo sithetha, iingqondo zethu azijolisanga nomsebenzi owenzekileyo we-30% yexesha. Endaweni yoko, bafunyanwa bebhadula kwiinkumbulo nasemaphupheni. imvelaphi .
Kutheni kubalulekile: akufuneki simangaliswe okanye sibe nomsindo xa iingqondo zethu zinganikeli ngqalelo- kuya kufuneka usifunde isivakalisi esinye amaxesha ama-5 ngaphambi kokuba usingenise!
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