Abantu zizidalwa zentlalo ngentliziyo mhlawumbi ngekhe size kude ngoluhlobo ukuba bekungenjalo. Ngomhla wangoku, nangona kunjalo, kuye kwafikelwa ngumkhwa othile ukwala ithuba lokuzibandakanya-into esingathanda ukuyibona itshintsha.
Kuya kufuneka sifunde ukumamela ngakumbi ezintliziyweni zethu kwaye sithi hayi kwimisitho xa sikhetha ukuhlala ekhaya, ukubukela iTV okanye ukungena ebhafini.
Asibizi ukwahlulwa kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo asifuni ukukhuthaza abantu ukuba babe ngabangcweti into esiyicebisayo yingcinga yokuba ilungile kuthi nakubudlelwane bethu xa sinokuthi hayi kwizimemo amaxesha ngamaxesha.
Ukuba siza kulufezekisa olu tshintsho, kuya kufuneka silujongise kumacala amabini.
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Eyokuqala kukususa into elindelweyo ebantwini ingcinezelo yoontanga esinyanzela ukuba sivumelane nento xa besingayi kukhetha. Oku kunyanzelwa ekuhlaleni yenye yeempawu ezingafunekiyo zeli xesha langoku apho iminxeba ephindaphindwayo yokuba uvume ewe kumsitho ukushiya uziva ngathi awunandlela.
Endaweni yoko, abo benza isimemo kufuneka basamkele isigqibo somntu. Khumbula, nokuba kukho into enomtsalane kuwe, ayikuko ukuthi iya kuba yeyomntu wonke.
Ukuziva unetyala yinto yesibini ekufuneka ilungisiwe ukuba siza kuphumelela ekubonakaliseni iminqweno yethu yokwenyani kwimeko yokuhlangana. Rhoqo, abo banqwenela ukwala isimemo bazifumanisa besilwa kukuziva benetyala. Xa eli tyala lisongamela, sigqiba sithi ewe kwizinto esingathanda ukuthi hayi kuzo.
Esinye sezizathu eziphambili zokuziva sinetyala kungenxa yokuba sikholelwa ukuba siyamphoxa omnye umntu ngandlela thile. Sinokude sicinge ukuba sizibeka emngciphekweni wokufumana ubudlelwane ngenxa yokwala esibajongise kubo.
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Eli tyala lingoyiswa ngokunxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo iimvakalelo zakho ukuze omnye umntu aqonde apho uvela khona. Kulungile ukuthi 'enkosi ngesimemo, kodwa uyazi, ndibethwa kancinci emva kweveki exakekileyo, ke ndicinga ukuba ndiza kuphola ekhaya namhlanje.'
Uya kufumanisa ukuba ubudlelwane bakho buya kukhula ukuba ungavulelana omnye nomnye kwaye ngekhe uphele ucaphukela umntu kuba bekunyanzele ukuba uthi ewe xa wawuthe hayi ekuqaleni.
Akunjalo konke malunga nama-Introverts Vs Extroverts
Usenokuba ufunda eli nqaku ukholelwa ukuba malunga nendlela izaziso uthanda ukuhlala ekhaya ngelixa i-extroverts zikhetha ukuphuma ekuhlaleni. Kodwa iya nzulu kunale.
Kubaqalayo, abantu banokubhengeza kwaye baxelwe ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo umbono wokuba umntu unesikhundla esinye esisigxina kwisikali sokungenisa esiqhelekileyo asichanekanga.
Wonke umntu unelungelo lokuzifumana nokuba kukuphi kwesiphelo sendawo enkulu okanye encinci. Oku kuxhomekeke kwinani lezinto ezifana nokuba ngubani osibuzayo, uthini umcimbi (mhlawumbi sisiganeko esikhethekileyo), yintoni enokuthi ibandakanyeke (kukho umahluko phakathi kokutya kunye nemini epheleleyo yemidlalo ye-adrenaline ), kwaye unikwa kwangaphambili kangakanani.
Unokonwaba kwaye uzimisele ngakumbi ukuthi ewe kwisiselo sokuzalwa esikhululekile kunye neqela elincinci labahlobo osondeleyo elicwangciswe kwangaphambili, kunokuba ungavuma ukuya kupeyinta ibhola neqela elikhulu labantu (abanye babo ongabanikiyo) t yazi) inosuku okanye ezimbini kuphela.
Akunakuphika ukuba abanye abantu bafumana ukulingana kwabo kwendalo ekupheleni kwesilinganiselo, kodwa phantse wonke umntu uya kuziva isidingo sexesha lokuphuma rhoqo.
Into ekufuneka amacala omabini ayikhumbule yile: hayi namhlanje akufuneki ukuba ithi hayi kusasa.
Ukuba umeme umntu osebenza naye emva kokusela izihlandlo ezi-5 kwaye bathe hayi ngalo lonke ixesha, sukuyeka ukubabuza ukuba bafuna ukujoyina isihlandlo sesithandathu, kodwa ukuba awubamemi, basenokungakwazi ndiziva ndikwazi ukubuza.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba nguwe othe hayi ngeli xesha, qiniseka ukwazisa omnye umntu ukuba unganqwenela ukwenza enye into kwixa elizayo. Unokuthi 'Andiziva ngalo eli xesha, kodwa kutheni singalungiseleli into kwiveki ezayo?'
Impixano yangaphakathi
Sebenzisa ixesha lakho lasimahla lokuhlala kwaye uphumle ngamanye amaxesha kunokubangela nomzabalazo wangaphakathi nawo.
Inxalenye yakho ungathanda ukuchitha iMigqibelo yakho phambi komabonwakude ubukele ezemidlalo okanye ufumane incwadi oyifundayo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha unokufumana ezinye iingcinga zingena entlokweni yakho. Unganexhala lokuba uphoswa bubomi kwaye kufanele ukuba wenza ngakumbi ngexesha lakho.
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Imithombo yeendaba kwezentlalo kufuneka ithathe ityala loku. Xa ubona abahlobo bakho bethumela iifoto kuFacebook, okanye bejonga kwiindawo abazindwendwelayo, oko kungakunika umbono wokuba bonwabele ubomi ngakumbi kunawe. Inokuba yingcinga engenangqondo, kodwa uqala ukukholelwa ukuba yile nto kufanele ukuba uyayenza nawe.
Endaweni yoko, kufuneka uzikhumbuze ukuba uhlangabezana nazo ezi zinto xa uziva unjalo. Akufanele uve isidingo sokupakisha yonke ixesha kunye nemisebenzi ukuba ayisiyiyo le uyinqwenela ukuyenza. Ukuchitha usuku okanye ingokuhlwa ekhaya kunokuba novuyo ngokweemvakalelo njengokuhamba.
I-Conscious Rethink: ukuziqhelanisa nokwamkelwa kubalulekile kwiimeko zentlalo abo benza isimemo kufuneka basamkele isigqibo somntu xa besithi hayi, ngelixa abo babuzwayo kufuneka bazamkele iimvakalelo zabo kwaye bangangcatshi ngokuthi ewe. Ukuphumla ekhaya akukwenzi ube uyadika kwaye oko akuthethi ukuba uyaphoswa bubomi, sisidingo esisisiseko kuthi sonke - yile yokuba abanye bethu bayayifuna ngaphezulu kunabanye.
