Ukuba ufunda le nto, kusenokwenzeka ukuba unosuku lokuqala.
Mhlawumbi uzibekele usuku kunye nexesha, okanye mhlawumbi ubusoloko uthetha nalo mntu rhoqo, kwaye uyazi ukuba ngekhe kube kudala ngaphambi kokuba uthathe inyathelo elilandelayo.
Uyazi ukuba bekungafanelekanga ukuba ubabalisele ibali lakho lobomi elipheleleyo kwisicatshulwa ngaphambi kokuba uhlangane, kodwa usokola ukubambelela kuloo nto.
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Nasi isikhokelo sakho sokuba kutheni ungafanelekanga ukuba ubhale imiyalezo kakhulu kwaye ingakanani kakhulu.
Kuya kuhamba kwakhona ngento ekufanele ukuba uzama ukuphuma kuyo izicatshulwa ezitshintshiweyo phambi kokuba nihlangane.
Kwaye, okokugqibela kodwa kungaphelelanga apho, siza kujonga indlela yokujongana nale meko ukuba omnye umntu ngokucacileyo akayabelani neemvakalelo zakho malunga nokugcina incoko zakho zomhla. Ngaphandle kokuma okanye ukrwada kwaye ubeke umngcipheko ekubekeni ecaleni, ewe.
Kutheni le nto ungathumeli kakhulu ngaphambi komhla wokuqala?
Usandul 'ukudibana nomntu omtsha, nokuba ukwi-intanethi okanye ngendlela' yesiko 'ngakumbi. Uqalile ukuthumela imiyalezo kwaye uyababangela.
Kwezi meko, kunokuba sisihendo sokuchitha yonke imini yonke uncokola nabo… phambi kokuba udibane nabo ubuso ngobuso.
Kukho ngesiqhelo isixa esithile 'sokwazi wena' ngaphambi kokuba uvume ukudibana, kwaye oko kubalulekile.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ixesha liyinto exabisekileyo kule mihla kwaye ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba kunokwenzeka phambi kokuba uzibophelele kumhla.
Kodwa iqhinga kukungavumeli loo ngxoxo iphume esandleni.
Kungenxa yokuba umhla wokuqala kufuneka ube malunga nokwazana. Kufanele ukuba babe ngabantu ababini bebuzana imibuzo kwaye beveza izinto abangazaziyo ngomnye nomnye.
Umhla wokuqala kufuneka ugcwele izityhilelo kwaye mhlawumbi nezinto ezingalindelekanga.
Kodwa ukuba uthumele umyalezo omninzi phambi komhla, uya kube sele ubuzene ngemibuzo eyintshayelelo esemgangathweni phambi kokuba uhlangane ubuso ngobuso.
Kwaye oko kunokwenza ukubuza imibuzo efanayo kwakhona kube nzima. Nokuba iimpendulo ozifumene ngaphezulu kwesicatshulwa mhlawumbi bezingaphantsi kakhulu kwaye zinengqiqo kunezo ubuya kuzifumana buqu.
Ukuthumela imiyalezo emininzi ngaphambi komhla kunokuthetha ukuba ungagqibela ngokuthula okungafunekiyo okungafunekiyo ngenxa yokuba ungavisisani ngokwendalo kwaye awunayo imibuzo oseleyo ukuyibuza.
Kuthetha ntoni ukuziva unelungelo
Enye ingozi yokubhala imiyalezo kakhulu ngaphambi kokuba udibane kukuba ayinguye wonke umntu opheleleyo ngokubhaliweyo. Banokuba nobuntu obahluke ngokupheleleyo ngesicatshulwa kwinto abayenzayo ebomini bokwenyani.
Ke, ukuthumela imiyalezo kakhulu kuqala kunokuthetha ukuba uqala ukukhulisa iimvakalelo zenguqulo yalo mntu engekhoyo kwihlabathi lokwenyani. Kwaye kunokudanisa xa uyifumana loo nto.
Ubungakanani ubhalela imiyalezo kakhulu?
Kunzima kakhulu ukubeka umnwe wakho xa ubhala imiyalezo ngaphambi kokuba umhla wokuqala uye kude kakhulu.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukufuna ukufumanisa kancinci malunga nomntu ngaphambi kokuba uye kumhla kunye naye.
Xa isiza kuwo, nguwe ekufuneka uthathe isigqibo sokuba uphi umgca.
Kodwa, ngokunganyanzelekanga, ukuba uqala ukungena kwiingxoxo ezineenkcukacha owaziyo ukuba ziya kuchazwa ngcono buqu, emva koko ubashiyele umhla wakho.
Ukuthumela imiyalezo kulungile kwiziseko malunga nokuba uvelaphi, wenza ntoni, kwaye yintoni umdla wakho.
Kungakuhle ukwenza ukuba nobabini nizive nikhululeke ngakumbi xa nidibana kuba nisazi okuthile malunga nomnye.
Inokukunika ukukhuthazwa okuluncedo kwabaqalayo bencoko yomntu.
Kodwa ukuba uzibhaqa usiba nzulu okanye uxelelana amabali obomi, lixesha lokuba ubambe ume.
Imixholo ukunqanda ukuthetha xa uthumela imiyalezo ngaphambi komhla wokuqala.
Kukho izihloko ezimbalwa ezichanekileyo zokungahambi kokubhalwa komyalezo ngaphambi komhla wokuqala.
Nazi ezinye zezihloko ekufuneka uzijongile. Kunqande ukuzisa ngokwakho kwaye, ukuba beza nento, yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuyicima ngembeko.
I-ex yakho, ii-ex zabo - le yintsimi ekhohlisayo ngomhla wokuqala nawo, nangona ungakhankanya ukuba ungatshatanga ixesha elingakanani kwaye ubudlelwane bakho buhlala ixesha elingakanani ngaphambili. Qiniseka nje ukuba awutshintshisi iinkcukacha malunga neziqu ngokwazo.
Iintsapho zakho - ukuba awukadibani okwangoku, akukho mfuneko yokuba bazi ukuba ubizelwa ntoni umama wakho okanye kutheni ungavani nabazala bakho.
Amathemba akho namaphupha -Ufuna ukuba bakubone ukukhanya emehlweni akho okokuqala ubaxelela malunga nezicwangciso zakho ezinkulu zekamva.
Usuku lwakho olubi - ukugcuma kubo malunga nomphathi wakho ofunekayo okanye umhlobo ocaphukisayo mhlawumbi ngekhe enze olona phawu lubalaseleyo.
Yintoni ofanele ukuba uthetha ngayo phambi komhla wokuqala?
Njengoko kukhankanyiwe ngasentla, kulungile ukusebenzisa imiyalezo ukuze ufumane iziseko malunga nomntu othile akunike umbono wokuba uyahambelana na.
Kodwa eyona njongo yeetekisi ozitshintshayo kufuneka ibe kukuxoxa ngomhla eninokuthi nazane ngawo ngokufanelekileyo.
wazi njani ukuba intombazana ikuwe
Akufanele uyishiye ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuxoxa ukuba uza kudibana phi kwaye phi.
Ukuba unako, zama ukuwenza umhla kwangoko kunokuba ube mva.
Kungenxa yokuba ixesha elide ekufuneka ulindile, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba ubhale ngaphezulu, okanye incoko phakathi kwakho iyeke ngokupheleleyo.
Nje ukuba uthathe isigqibo xa udibana, isicatshulwa esingaqhelekanga sikhulu ekwakheni ulindelo kunye nolonwabo.
Iimemes ezihlekisayo okanye ukuqaphela okungahleliwe kulungile ukuba umise imiyalezo ebanda kakhulu kwaye ugqithise ubuntu bakho kunye nokuhlekisa ngaphandle kokuthumela imiyalezo kakhulu.
Unokugqibela ngokufuna ukuthumela umyalezo ukuze ubazise ukuba ushiywe lixesha okanye ukuba omnye wenu ufuna ukulungisa kwakhona.
Ngapha koko, ukuthumela imiyalezo ukuthumela umhla kwangoko ngemini inokuba ngumbono olungileyo, kwimeko nje yokuba belibele okanye belahle umkhondo wexesha.
Uyigcina njani incoko kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo ngaphandle kokubeka kude.
Omnye wemicimbi ngale nto inokuba ukuba umntu obhalelana naye ngokucacileyo akabelani ngeemvakalelo zakho malunga nemigibe yokuthumela imiyalezo kwangaphambili.
Ukuba baqala iincoko ezinde okanye baqala ukubuza imibuzo enzulu, ungakukhathaza njani ukuthumela imiyalezo ngaphezulu komhla wokuqala ngaphandle kokubenza bazive ngathi bayasuswa?
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Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa ezikhawulezayo.
1. Phendula ngomyalezo omfutshane kodwa onobuhlobo.
Imiyalezo otshintshiselana nalo mntu ngaphambi komhla ayifanelanga ukuba inde kwaye ingahambi.
Ukuba bakubuza imibuzo, zama ukwenza iimpendulo zakho zibe lula, zifutshane, kwaye zifudumale, ngaphandle kokuvakala ngathi uyaphikisa.
2. Musa ukubuza imibuzo ekhokelayo.
Nokuba unomdla kangakanani wokufumana konke malunga nalo mntu, gcina ukwazi kwakho ngalo mhla.
Musa ukubabuza imibuzo owaziyo ukuba iya kukhokelela kwimpendulo ende, okanye nantoni na owaziyo ukuba kuya kuba ngcono ukuyibuza buqu.
Umbhalo oza kuwuthumela emva komhla wokuqala
3. Nyaniseka.
Ukuba bakubuza umbuzo othile malunga nawe okanye ngobomi bakho ocinga ukuba kuya kuba ngcono ukuxoxwa ngomhla wakho kodwa awufuni ukubaphelisa, ke elona qhinga lilungileyo kukunyaniseka.
Bazise ukuba ujonge phambili ekubaxeleleni ngako konke, kodwa libali elide ngokuqinisekileyo elilunge ngakumbi kumntu.
Ukuba bayaqhubeka nokuthumelelana imiyalezo, kuya kuhlala kukho inketho yokubachazela ukuba uhlala ulumkile malunga nokwazi umntu ngaphezulu kwesicatshulwa kuba awucingi ukuba uqobo lwakho luyakhanya xa ubhala.
Oko kuya kubaqinisekisa ukuba ujonge phambili kumhla kwaye unomdla wokubazi ngokufanelekileyo.
4. Wenze umhla ngokukhawuleza kunokuba ufike kamva.
Ukubetha ibhalansi elungileyo phakathi kokungathumeli imiyalezo kakhulu kunye nokuvumela izinto ziphume ngaphambi kokuba udibane nazo kunzima.
Ke, esona sisombululo sisiso kukuqinisekisa ukuba udibana ne-ASAP. Sukuhendeka ukuba uyidlale ipholile kwaye wenze ngathi idayari yakho yonke ibhukishelwe iiveki ezimbini ezizayo.
Ukuba nobabini nikhululekile ze nifumane into ebhukishiweyo, nokuba yiyure nje ekhawulezileyo ngaphezulu kwekomityi yekofu. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe sisimo esifanelekileyo kumhla wokuqala.
Le ntlanganiso yokuqala ibalulekile ukwaphula umkhenkce kunye nokuseka unxibelelwano onokwakhela phezu kwalo, kokubini ngokubhaliweyo kwaye, ngethemba, ngayo yonke imihla ezayo.
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