Kukangaphi ebomini bakho ufungile ukuba awusoze uphinde wenze impazamo efanayo, kuphela emva kokuzifumanisa usenza into efanayo iminyaka, iinyanga, iiveki, iintsuku, okanye umba weeyure kamva?
Njengabantu, sihlala sinenjongo ezintle. Xa izinto zingalunganga, nokuba yimpazamo encinci, okanye intle kakhulu, siyazithembisa ukuba siza kuba ngcono kwikamva. Kwaye siyinyani.
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Kodwa ixesha lihamba kwaye inkumbulo yethu yempazamo iyaphela, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba sazi, senza into efanayo kwakhona kwakhona.
Ngamanye amaxesha senza iimpazamo ezincinci ezifanayo yonke imihla ngaphandle kokubona. Kodwa xa siphinda ezinkulu, siyazikhaba ngayo, sinqwenela ukuba sifunde isifundo okokuqala ngqa.
Ke, ungafunda njani kwiimpazamo zakho, ezinkulu nezincinci?
Ungazithatha njani izinto ezifundiswa bubomi yonke imihla?
Makhe sijonge kwicala eliqaqambileyo.
Cinga malunga nokuba yintoni intsingiselo yempazamo kuwe. Xa usiva ‘impazamo,’ ngaba ngokuzenzekelayo ucinga ‘ukusilela’?
Baninzi abantu abenzayo, xa iimpazamo ziyinxalenye engenakuphepheka yobomi. Zezinye zeendlela eziphambili ezinokuthi abantu bafunde kwaye baqhubele phambili.
Sonke sifunda ngokuzama kunye nephutha. Ukwenza izinto zingalunganga yindlela esibona ngayo ukuba sizilungisa njani kwixesha elizayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha sifumana izinto ngokufanelekileyo okokuqala, kodwa amaxesha ngamaxesha kunokuba sifuna ukuziqhelanisa nokuba mbini.
Ukuba ungazijonga iimpazamo zakho ngoluhlobo, kungekudala uza kuqala ukuqonda ukuba ungafunda phi na kubo, kwaye uzimisele ngakumbi ukuthatha ezo zifundo ebhodini, kunokuba uxhathise ngenkani.
Uya kuba nakho ukuhlala ubomi bakho kancinci kancinci.
Ukuba uyakwazi ukubeka isakhelo sempazamo ngendlela efanelekileyo, awusayi kuphuma uye kuzenza ngenjongo, kodwa awuyi koyika 'kuthekani ukuba.' Ngenxa yokuba uyazi ukuba xa ufumana izinto ezingalunganga, uyakulunga.
Uya kukulungela ngakumbi ukuthatha umngcipheko ebomini ukuba awoyiki ukwenza iimpazamo.
Ufunda njani kwiimpazamo zakho
Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa zokwenza uninzi lwesifundo ngempazamo nganye ekufundisayo, ukuze uhlale usenza iimpazamo ezintsha, endaweni yokuphindaphinda ezindala zakho amaxesha ngamaxesha.
1. Yazi impazamo oyenzileyo.
Awunakufunda kwimpazamo ukuba awusoze uvume ukuba yenzekile kwasekuqaleni.
Ukuba siyala ukwamkela nokwamkela apho siphene khona, simiselwe ukwenza iimpazamo ezifanayo kwakhona.
Ke, inyathelo lokuqala lokufunda kwiimpazamo zakho kukuba ngumnini kuzo, nokuba yeyakho wedwa. Ungazami ukutshintsha ityala komnye umntu okanye kwenye into, okanye ubeke izizathu.
Ewe, zinokubakho iimeko ezithethelelayo, kodwa kusafuneka uyamkele into yokuba ubuphosisa, kwaye mhlawumbi uxelele abantu ukuba yimpazamo yakho echaphazele into ongayenzanga.
Ukuba ukhathazeka ngokuza njengobuthathaka okanye ongenakukwazi ukwenza umsebenzi, cinga nje ngendlela obabona ngayo abantu abazama ngokucacileyo ukufihla impazamo abayenzileyo. Mhlawumbi awuboni ekukhanyeni okuqinisekileyo.
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Kodwa ukuba ubabone bekwimpazamo abayenzileyo, ungabahlonipha ngenxa yokunyaniseka kwabo, kwaye uthembe ukuba bayasifunda isifundo sabo kwaba kanye.
Ke, ginya ikratshi lakho kwaye wamkele ityala.
Sukuhendeka ukuba ubeke ityala ngaphandle, usithi ibiphantsi kwemozulu, umshicileli wakho, ukugcwala kwabantu, abantwana bakho…
Nokuba kwenzeka ntoni, kukho amaxesha amaninzi (nangona kungekho rhoqo) into onokuyenza ukuyithintela, kwaye kufuneka uyamkele loo nto ukuze uzilungiselele ngcono izinto eziphoswa bubomi kwikamva.
2. Zinike ikhefu.
Ukwamkela ityala lento akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka uzibethe ngayo. Kufuneka uhambe ngokulula kuwe, njengoko sonke sisenza iimpazamo ngokufuthi. Ngumntu kuphela.
Singabagxeki bethu, kodwa akufuneki uthethe nantoni na kuwe ngekhe utsho kumhlobo wakho osenyongweni.
Ewe, uya kunyaniseka kumhlobo wakho osenyongweni malunga nento yokuba baphazamise. Kodwa ngekhe ubaxelele ukuba impazamo yabo enye emsebenzini ibenza umntu owoyikekayo. Yiba nobubele kwaye ulunge kuwe njengoko ubuya kwenza kubo.
3. Cinga ngento onokuyenza ngokwahlukileyo.
Awudingi ukuzikrokra, kodwa akufuneki ukuba utshayele nje oku phantsi kwetyali kwaye ulibale ngako. Ukuba uyakwenza oko, uya kuba kwindlela ekhawulezayo yokwenza impazamo efanayo kwakhona.
Thatha ixesha lokucinga. Konakele phi? Yintoni onokuyenza ngokwahlukileyo kwixesha elizayo?
Ngewenze ntoni ukuthintela umba wokuvela kwasekuqaleni?
Cinga ngokuchanekileyo okufundileyo kule mpazamo kwaye ucinge ngendlela onokuthi usabele ngayo ukuba imeko efanayo ibinokuvela kwakhona.
Ukubhala yonke le nto kunokuba luncedo njengoko kunokuthetha ukuba uyithatha nyhani yonke into. Ukuqonda iimpazamo zakho yeyona nto iphambili, kungenjalo ngekhe uphinde ufunde kubo.
4. Cinga ngee-linings zesilivere.
Kulungile, ke akusoloko kukho ii-linings zesilivere. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha uyakubafumana apho ungalindelanga.
Ngaba wenze impazamo ngokuvula iminyango?
Inokubakho into onokuyihlangula kwimeko leyo, eya kukunceda ukuba ungatyhafi.
Oku kunokunceda ukubeka izinto ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ezinye iimpazamo ziyabutshintsha ubomi, kodwa uninzi aluyi kuba njalo, kwaye ubomi buqhubeka.
5. Yeka ukuzabalazela ukugqibelela.
Ukuba ekuphela kwento oyakuyamkela ngokwakho kukugqibelela, uzibekela ukusilela kwasekuqaleni.
Ukwenza iimpazamo kufanele kukufundise ukuba akukho mntu ugqibelele, kwaye ubomi buya kuba buthuntu kakhulu ukuba asiphazamanga ngoku kwaye kwakhona.
Gxila ekukhuleni ngokuqhubekayo nasekufundeni, kodwa ungaze ugqibelele.
6. Yenza iinguqulelo ezithile.
Ngoku uyamkele kwaye wayihlaziya impazamo yakho, lixesha lokujonga kwikamva.
Sebenzisa oko ukufundileyo malunga neengcambu zeempazamo zakho ukukunceda wenze utshintsho ebomini bakho.
Cinga ngento ekufuneka ubenayo ukuze ulungele nantoni na, ngelixa usamkela ukuba awunakuze uqikelele okuzayo kwikona.
Yenza izicwangciso naphina apho unakho, kodwa ukulungele ukuba bhetyebhetye. Cinga malunga nalapho unokufuna khona ukwenza utshintsho okanye ulungelelwaniso ukuze ufikelele kwiinjongo zakho zokuphela.
Ukuba unganako, landela indlela oziphethe ngayo ke unokubona ukuba usendleleni yokwenza impazamo enye, okanye ukwazile ukujika izinto.
Ukuba unexhala lokuba ungangabambeleli kwisicwangciso sakho esitsha, yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuzinceda uthethe kakuhle kwizizathu kwaye uqalise ukubona iziphumo.
Lungiselela ngaphezulu xa kukho imfuneko yokwenza kube lula ukubambelela kwisicwangciso xa kufikwa kumzuzu wenyaniso.
7. Yabelana ngoko ukufundileyo.
Ayikho enye indlela ebhetele yokufunda kunokwabelana nabanye abantu.
Iya kuyomeleza ngokwenene imikhwa yakho emitsha, kunye nokunceda abanye.
8. Yiyeke ihambe.
Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, uchithe ngaphezu kwexesha elaneleyo ubonakalisa ngempazamo yakho. Ke lixesha lokuyibeka emva kwakho.
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Uthathe ityala, kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuba ubambelele kuyo kwaye uyiyeke ikusindise.
Jonga phambili unethemba, usazi ukuba ujongane nento oyenzileyo, wafunda isifundo sakho, kwaye uya kuzilungiselela kwixesha elizayo.
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Ubomi yinto enye yokuzivocavoca ixesha elide kwilingo kunye nephutha, kwaye uya kwenza iimpazamo ezinkulu kunye nezincinci imihla ngemihla.
Kodwa ukufunda ngokuqonda kwezi mpazamo sisitshixo ekuqinisekiseni ukuba ufezekisa zonke iinjongo zakho kwaye wenze umahluko kubomi bakho nasehlabathini.
Uneempazamo ezininzi ezisaphambi kwakho, kodwa impumelelo enkulu iza nayo.
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