Umnqweno onamandla wokubaleka ebomini yimpendulo engaqhelekanga kwiimvakalelo ezinzima kunye neemeko.
Ngaba kusengqiqweni ukufuna ukubaleka ebomini? Ewe ngamanye amaxesha kunjalo. Ngamanye amaxesha siye sikhukuliswe kukuthambeka kwezinto ekufuneka sizenzile kangangokuba sifuna nje ukuphosa konke ecaleni sithanda ikhefu elifuneka kakhulu.
Amatyala ukuhlawula, uxanduva lokuphatha, ukusebenza ukwenza, imisebenzi yasekhaya yokwenza, ubudlelwane kunye nobuhlobo obugcinwayo-zonke zithatha amandla omzimba, engqondo nawomoya.
Umnqweno wokubaleka usenokuvela kwiingxaki zobuqu ezingasonjululwanga ezinje ngoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.
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Ubunzima beembopheleleko zobomi bunzima kakhulu xa uzama ukuhamba ngeengxaki zempilo yengqondo ngaphezulu kwayo yonke into oxhalabileyo ngayo. Ngexesha elithile, ingqondo yakho ithi, 'Hayi! Andisajongani nale nto kwakhona! ' kwaye ufuna ukubaleka. Oku kusengqiqweni kunokuba ucinga.
Ingxaki kukuba ayizukukwenza nantoni na. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba uzama ukubaleka iingxaki zakho zobuqu ezifuna umsebenzi ukoyisa, ezo ngxaki zizokulandela nje nokuba uyaphi.
Isisombululo kukuchonga ukuba kutheni uziva ngathi ufuna ukuhamba. Emva kokumisela oko, emva koko unokukhetha ngokufanelekileyo ukujongana naloo mnqweno.
Kutheni ufuna ukubaleka?
Yintoni ekucinezela? Ukoyiswa yintoni?
Umnqweno wokubaleka uhlala uxhomeke kwiimvakalelo zokukhathazeka. Kungcono ukuqala ngokuchonga eyona nto ikongameleyo kunye nokuba kunzima kangakanani. Eminye yale mizekelo ilandelayo inokukunceda uqaphele uxinzelelo.
Imali - Imali ngumthombo obalulekileyo woxinzelelo kubantu abaninzi. Ayifane ibonakale ngathi unayo eyoneleyo, ngakumbi ukuba ukhe wagqabhuka ngendleko ezingalindelekanga okanye ezimbini apha endleleni. Okanye mhlawumbi iindleko ezilindelekileyo ziye zaqokelelwa-irente okanye imali mboleko, ukutya, ukulungiswa kwemoto, iimali mboleko zabafundi.
Usapho - Usapho alusoloko lusempilweni okanye lonwabile. Unokufumanisa ukuba uxinzelelo lwakho lubangelwa kukujongana namalungu osapho athile, uxanduva losapho, okanye ulindelo. Ukuba unamalungu osapho ayityhefu okanye anokukuxhaphaza, uya kujongana noxinzelelo olunzima ngakumbi kunomntu ongenalo.
Ubudlelwane - Abahlobo kunye namaqabane athandanayo anokongeza uxinzelelo kubomi bakho, nokuba ayobubo obulungileyo nobuhle. Baseza noxanduva kunye nolindelo obungenakuba nalo ngaphandle kwalo. Abahlobo abanetyhefu okanye abayingozi banokwenza ukuba imeko ibe mbi nangakumbi.
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Umsebenzi - Ngubani ongafumani uxinzelelo malunga noxanduva lomsebenzi amaxesha ngamaxesha? Ujongene nexesha elibekiweyo, okulindelweyo, ukujongana nabantu osebenza nabo okanye abathengi, ukujongana nomphathi, ukujongana nomphathi womphathi. Mhlawumbi awuzive ngathi uhlawulwa ngokwaneleyo okanye uyaxhamla.
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwesiyobisi - Kuqhelekile ukuba abantu babe nento encinci ekuncedeni ukuthatha uhlangothi. Ingxaki kukuba ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi akuncedi nganto ngendlela eya kuthi ibonelele ngesiphumo esihle.
Umntu oxinezelekileyo unokuzenza ndikhubazeke ezimbalwa - okanye nangaphezulu - iziselo, kodwa uxinzelelo luya kubakho xa bevuka kusasa ngengomso ngaphandle kokuba befumana indlela yokunciphisa nokuhamba kolo xinzelelo.
Ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi kongeza kuxinzelelo ngenxa yefuthe leziyobisi kwinkqubo yemithambo-luvo. Inokuba negalelo kakhulu kuxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo kwithuba elide, nangona inokubonelela ngesiqabu esifutshane kwixesha elifutshane.
Isigulo sengqondo - Ukugula ngengqondo luluhlu olubanzi olubandakanya iindlela ezininzi zokuziphatha kunye nemibono. Ezinye izifo zengqondo zinokubangela uxinzelelo olongezelelekileyo ngokwendlela ezisebenza ngayo, ezinje ngoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo loxinzelelo. Iimeko zobomi ezidityaniswe nokugula ngengqondo zinokubangela uxinzelelo ukuba unengxaki yokubamba umsebenzi, ubudlelwane, okanye ukuhlala ulungelelene.
Le mizekelo ikude kuphela koxinzelelo onokuba uhlangabezana nalo, ke musa ukulinganisela kwezi zinto nje. Cinga ngayo nantoni na enokubangela uxinzelelo okanye iimvakalelo ezinyanzela ukuba ubaleke.
Yintoni onokuyenza ngomnqweno wokubaleka?
Isisombululo esicacileyo kwiimvakalelo zakho zokufuna ukubaleka kukusombulula nokusombulula iingxaki ojamelene nazo - imithombo (yo) mthombo woxinzelelo lwakho.
Kodwa oko akusoloko kunokwenzeka. Ayizizo zonke iingxaki ezinokusonjululwa ngokukhawuleza okanye ngokulula, kwaye ke kuya kufuneka ufumane indlela yokumelana nazo.
Njengoko kukhankanyiwe ngasentla, umnqweno wokubaleka ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuhamba kunye nemvakalelo yokuziva ukoyiswa zezi ngxaki kunye neemeko.
Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu sokuziva, inokuncitshiswa iye kumanqanaba alawulwayo ngakumbi xa ubeke indlela yokuzikhathalela enokulawulwa.
Ubomi buxakekile, kwaye abucothi nje kuthi ukuthatha ikhefu. Kufuneka ngenjongo yenza ixesha kunye nendawo ebomini bethu ukuphumla nokuhlaziya iibhetri zethu ngaphambi kokutsiba sibuyele kulwa.
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Abanye abantu bajonge ukuzinakekela njengento engenamsebenzi okanye eyonwabisayo. Ayiyo. Ingqondo yakho ifana nesihlunu. Ukuba usebenza nzima ixesha elide, unokubangela ingozi.
Kuya kufuneka uthathe ikhefu uyeke izihlunu zakho ziphinde emva kokuba uzilolonge ukuze uphile kwaye womelele. Ngokufanayo, ingqondo yakho ifuna ikhefu rhoqo kuxinzelelo kunye nobunzima bobomi ukuqinisekisa ukuba awuzidinisi.
Ukuzinakekela kujongeka kwahlukile kumntu kumntu. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ufumana ikhefu elincinci lokusila ngokubanzi. Ukuzinakekela kunokujongeka njengoku:
Ukucamngca - Ukucamngca yindlela emnandi yokunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye nokuqhubekeka neemvakalelo ozivayo. Ngoku usenokuba ucinga ngokwakho, 'Andikwazi ukucamngca! Andikwazi kuyicima ingqondo yam! ' Esi sisalathiso esihle sokuba ukucamngca kuya kukunceda. Kuthatha ixesha kunye nomzamo ukufunda ukucamngca, ukucoca ingqondo yakho, kunye nokulungisa iimvakalelo zakho, kodwa kuya kuba lula ngakumbi xa usenza.
Zilolonge - Ukuzivocavoca kunokuba sisixhobo esinamandla sokuzinakekela ngenxa yokuba unokuvuthela amandla kunye noxinzelelo ngelixa uphucula impilo yakho. Ukuthatha uhambo lwemizuzu engama-20 amaxesha ambalwa ngeveki kunokubonelela ngezibonelelo ezikhulu zomzimba nezengqondo.
Izinto endizithandayo - Izinto endizithandayo ziyindlela elungileyo yokuqhawula uxanduva kude kube ngoku ungathathi izinto zokuzonwabisa ezongeza uxinzelelo kubomi bakho. Banokuba yindlela elungileyo yokuphuma, ukuba nabahlobo, kunye nokudibana nabantu abatsha ukuba ukhetha umsebenzi oza kuwenza.
Ikhefu okanye ukuhlala - Asisoloko sinemali yokuphuma nokuhamba. Endaweni yokubaleka ngokupheleleyo, iholide yethutyana okanye indawo yokuhlala, njengoko uhlala ekhaya kodwa unqamle kuwo wonke umntu okwethutyana, kunokuba yindlela elungileyo yokutshaja kwakhona iibhetri zakho. Yazisa abantu ukuba awuzukufumaneka, beka ifowuni yakho ungaphazamisi, kwaye uzenzele ixesha lokuphumla.
Nciphisa iMidiya - Nciphisa isixa sokungakhathali ozivumelayo ukuba usisebenzise. Iindaba zihlala zizaliswa yintshabalalo nobumnyama. Ihlabathi yindawo erhabaxa, ngamanye amaxesha irougher kunezinye. Kwaye sinomjikelo weendaba we-24/7 waloo ntshabalalo kunye nesithokothoko esingasayi kuphela. Kubalulekile ukuhlala unolwazi, kodwa sonke kufuneka sinciphise ukusetyenziswa kwethu. Ukuba uqhubeka uqubha ngomsindo kunye noloyiko, luyakukukhathaza, uxinezeleke, kwaye uxinezeleke.
Ukuzikhathalela yenye yezo zinto zilula, kodwa akusoloko kulula. Awunaso isiqingatha sentliziyo kufuneka uzinikele ekwenzeni izinto ezinceda ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo kunye nexhala rhoqo.
Kodwa, ekugqibeleni, ukoyisa loo mnqweno wokubaleka, kufuneka wenze imeko ngoku oyibiza ngokuba 'bubomi' obulawula ngakumbi noxolo.
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Ndidinga uncedo lobungcali?
Ngaba unengxaki yokuchonga apho unokufuna khona uncedo okanye indlela yokuphucula? Ukuba kunjalo, unokufuna ukucinga ngokuthetha nengcali yezempilo yengqondo ukuze ufike kwingcambu yomnqweno wokubaleka.
Kusenokungabi lula kuwe ukubona. Ngamanye amaxesha siye sibe neendawo ezingaboniyo apho singaboniyo okanye siyixabise into yokuba sinokuba phantsi koxinzelelo. Ukufumana ukungathathi hlangothi, uluvo lomntu wesithathu kunokunika ukuqonda okunokukunceda ufumane uxolo kunye nemfuno yakho yokubaleka.
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