Ngaba awuhambelani ncam neenkcazo zokungenisa okanye ukwazisa?
Hayi, kananjalo nabantu abaninzi, yiyo loo nto eli nqaku liza kuqala ngentloko kwindalo yakho yokwenyani njengomthunzi ongwevu phakathi komnyama nomhlophe wezo zinto zimbini zigqithileyo.
Kumahlelo amaninzi aphathekayo abantu abaye baphupha ngawo ukuba babhale omnye komnye, ambiversion ibonakala iyeyona inomtsalane. Ukuba awukalazi eli gama, libhekisa kumntu ongekhoyo Qalisa ukwazisa , okanye i-extrovert, kodwa iwela kwindawo ethile phakathi kwembonakalo phakathi kwezi zimbini. I-ambivert ye-avareji inokuxhomekeka ngakumbi kwelinye icala kunelinye, kodwa inokuphinda ibambe lonke isikali ngokuxhomekeke kwindlela abaziva ngayo ngelo xesha.
Ngayiphi na imeko, ukuba li-ambivert kunoluhlu olumangalisayo lwezibonelelo, ke ukuba uchonga njengomnye, kunokwenzeka ukuba ungumntwana wegolide omlingo phakathi koontanga bakho. Endaweni yokuba uchukuziswe kwinkampu yokungenisa okanye yokugxotha (ngaloo ndlela usengozini yokuchasana nento oyabelweyo), unyikimisa umhlaba ophakathi kwaye unakho ukubanakho ukuzivumelanisa nayo nayiphi na imeko ngendlela efanayo nele chameleon enokutshintsha kunye ne-shimmy yokutshatisa iphepha lodonga swatches.
Ukhululekile Emhlabeni Nasemanzini
… Yima, sisiqwenga sasemanzini.
Ewe, umbono ofanayo: njenge-ambivert, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukhululeke kakhulu kwiklabhu enabantu abaninzi njengoko ukwikhefi ethe cwaka, udlala imidlalo yebhodi kunye nabahlobo bakho abambalwa. Unokuqonda okuqinisekileyo malunga nokuba zeziphi iimeko ezinokukunika amandla kwaye ziya kukuphelisa amandla, kwaye uyazi ukuba ungaziphatha ixesha elingakanani nganye nganye ngaphambi kokuba uqale uhambe kwaye kufuneka urhoxe, okanye ungene emanzini ukuze uzilinganise.
Umzekelo, ukuba ungaphezulu kancinci kwicala lokungeniswa, ngekhe uvele ushiyeke umbono wokuya epatini apho ungazi bantu baninzi kwaye kuya kufuneka uzonwabise kancinci, kodwa wena uyazi ukuba uya kuba nakho ukuyinyamezela loo meko kangangeyure ezimbalwa. Ukuba ungaphezulu kwe-extrovert, uya kuba nakho ukuphatha kuphela intlanganiso yeklabhu yeencwadi zomlingane wakho okwethutyana, kwaye emva koko unokuzithethelela ngokuthobekileyo ukuya kwenza abaphangi nabahlobo bakho kwindawo yebhayisekile ezantsi kwesitalato.
UnguMntu oThandwayo ngumntu wonke emsebenzini
Nokuba ubhabha ujikeleza entlanganisweni, unomdla malunga nokuthelekiswa kwamva kwesebe lezentengiso, okanye ugqibe ngenkuthalo iingxelo zakho zekota, ungoyena mntu uthandwa kakhulu ngumntu wonke eofisini.
Xa ungazoba nakweziphi na iinkalo zobuntu bakho, unokwazi ukukhula nokuba wenza ntoni. Umndilili wokungenisa ngaphakathi uya kuziva exhalabile kwaye engonwabanga kwiintlanganiso zebhodi, umzekelo, ngakumbi ukuba kufuneka banike naluphi na uhlobo lokubonisa kwabanye. Baya kuphazamiseka kwaye bacaphukise ukuba kufuneka basebenze kwi-ofisi evulekileyo, apho wonke umntu anokubona nokuva wonke umntu ngalo lonke ixesha.
I-avareji ye-extrovert, kwelinye icala, inokuba ikruqukile ezingqondweni zabo xa kufuneka bejolise ngokupheleleyo kwimisebenzi abacinga ukuba iyadinisa, njengokungena kwedatha, kwaye bakhetha ezo ndawo zisebenzisana nabanye kwiiofisi ezizezinye, abazithathela ingqalelo yi-claustrophobic kwaye uzihlukanise.
Ukusukela oko ubambelele kuzo zombini ihlabathi, unokugqwesa kuyo nayiphi na imeko. Usebenza wedwa njengaxa uyinxalenye yeqela, kwaye ukhululekile bobabini njengenkokeli, nanjengongaphantsi. Uyabona ukuba woyike kangakanani? Yiba nebhiskithi.
Akunakulindeleka ukuba wenze iimpazamo eziHlazisayo zeNtlalo
Njengoko ukhululekile kwiimeko ezininzi, akunakulindeleka ukuba wenze uhlobo lweefos zentlalontle ezinokuthi zibulale isingeniso okanye zifumane i-extrovert ibhulukhwe emnyama. Uyalazi ixesha lokuthetha kwaye uzivale nini isihogo, kwaye ungaphatha nantoni na ngobabalo nangesidima.
Ukuba ngempazamo uchithe isiselo sakho kumhla wakho, ngekhe ugabhe ngokuthotywa, kodwa ungenza isiqhulo ngawo kwaye ucebise ukuba elona khondo lilungileyo lezenzo kukuze ze. (Ewe, le ndlela ihlala isebenza-zama ngamanye amaxesha.) Mhlawumbi nawe unokuzibamba ngokwaneleyo ukuba xa usemathekweni, awuyi kuthuka umntu omdelelayo ngelixa ujikelezwe ngabantu ababathandayo unokuba ngobuqili Ukuba nomsindo endaweni yoko.
Uyakwazi ukuqonda kwaye uvelane nabo bobabini ama-Introverts kunye nama-Extrts
Kuba kusenokwenzeka ukuba unamaxesha apho ungenise kakhulu, kunye namanye amaxesha apho ukhutshiwe ngokupheleleyo, ungabaqonda abanye abazinze ngokuqinileyo nakweyiphi na indawo ebonakalayo. Unga Uvelwano nabahlobo abangenisayo xa befuna ukurhoxisa izicwangciso zentlalo, kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba bapholile ngokuzisa ipitsa kunye nomdlalo bhanyabhanya ukuze nibe kunye cwaka. Unokuqonda ngokupheleleyo xa iqabane elithandabuzekayo linokuba lixhuma kuba isifundo sobugcisa okuso sibenza ukuba bafune ukukhasa kulusu lwabo.
Uninzi lwempikiswano phakathi kwabahlobo kunye namaqabane lwenzeka ngenxa yokunqongophala kokuqonda. Ngaphandle kokuba umntu abe namava okuzibonela, kuhlala kunzima ukuba baqonde kwaye bavelane. Kuba mhlawumbi uzibonile zombini iziphelo zembonakalo, ungazibeka kwesinye isihlangu ngokulula, ngokungathandabuzekiyo esixabisekileyo ngaphezulu komlinganiselo.
Wonzakele Ukuzinza ngokweemvakalelo
Ngokungafaniyo nezo ziphelo zembonakalo, akunakulindeleka ukuba ujongane neemvakalelo ezigwenxa okanye ezengqondo njengokukhubazeka koxinzelelo lwentlalo, okanye ukuzingca kwezoluntu. Awunguye uhlobo lomntu oza kuzikhathaza kwaye uziqhayise kwimeko apho kuya kufuneka ujongane nesihlwele, kwaye awuzukuhlukanisa nabantu kuba ukhetha ukubamba ukukhanya okuphezulu kwamandla kunokumamela ngokuzolileyo ngelixa ' Ndiyathetha kwakhona.
Mhlawumbi uluhlobo lomntu onokushukumisa ukungakhathaleli ngokukhawuleza ukuze ungachithi ixesha lokuziqengqa. Uyazenza izinto. Awuluphephi uxanduva, kodwa nawe awukho nzulu kangangokuba ngekhe zenzeke ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye wenze izinto ezingenangqondo kanye ngexesha. Unokuphatha nantoni na ebomini ephosa kuwe ngaphandle kokuwa ngaphandle, kunye nethuba lokuzazisa ngokuzazisa, kunye nokuzimisela okungaphaya.
Unokuba liQabane eliLungileyo lamaRoma
Uyakwazi ukunyathela loo mhlaba uphakathi wobugqi kwaye unemfesane kunye nomdlandla, ke ulunge kakhulu kwiqabane lothando oluthandayo. Unako ukuzoba koovimba bakho bamandla xa ilixesha lokuba uye kwitheko lomsebenzi weqabane lakho - kwaye ke ngenxa yoko udibane nabaphathi babo kunye nabantu osebenza nabo nge-panache - kodwa unokuhlala ngokuzolileyo uthethe nabo ngezinto ezinzulu ungadikwa okanye ucaphuke.
Olunye uphawu olumangalisayo malunga ne-ambiverts kukuba ungazichaza iingcinga zakho ngamazwi kwaye uphulaphule. Uninzi lwama-introverts lunobunzima Ukuziveza ngomlomo Ngelixa uninzi lwee-extroverts zithanda ukuthetha, kodwa zinobunzima bokuva into ethethwa ngomnye umntu. Kwelinye icala, ungazenza zombini.
Xa uzama ukuveza iimvakalelo zakho kwiqabane lakho, ungabeka iingcinga zakho kumagama ngokucacileyo, kwaye uhambise into oyithethayo ngobuchule kunye nokudibanisa, kunokuba uluhlobo lomhlanzo othetha ukuba unokubenza basabele gwenxa. Ke, xa lithuba labo lokuthetha, uyinyani ukumamela kulento bazokuyithetha endaweni yokulinda elakho ithuba lokuba bathethe.
Leyo yindlela entle yokulahlwa.
Ewe kunjalo, kubalulekile ukugcina engqondweni ukuba i-ambiversion yindawo ebanzi, kwaye abantu banokubakho nangaliphi na ixesha kuyo. Unokuba nobunzima ngokuxubusha ukuba uthembele ngakumbi ekungeniseni, kwaye ngokuchaseneyo, kodwa uya kuba nexesha elilula kakhulu lokuziqhelanisa nomntu otyale ngokuqinileyo kwelinye icala.
Izibonelelo zokuzihlengahlengisa yibhonasi enkulu kwihlabathi elihlala litshintsha, kwaye unayo kwi-spades, nokuba uyayiqonda okanye hayi.
Iliwa lokuzimela, uyenyathi entle.
