Inyani yile, sinamandla ngakumbi kunokuba sizinika ityala, sitsho ngaphezulu ebomini bethu kunokuba sikholelwa.
Asimiselwanga ukuhlala singenzi nto kwaye samkele okwenzekayo kuthi, okanye uhlobo lomntu esiba lulo. Singakhetha.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, asinakukwazi ukulawula yonke into kwaye simunce ekuxeleni ikamva, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba asinamandla.
Izinto ezininzi ziphantsi kolawulo lwethu, izinto ezininzi zinokwenziwa ngakumbi, nangona zingaqinisekanga.
Inyaniso kukuba, sineengxowa zenyama eziphosakeleyo sithweswe kukucinga okugqithisileyo, kodwa ngelixa sinesiphene, ASIZO iziphene zethu.
Singasebenza kwiziqu zethu, singazabalazela ukukhula kwaye sibe ngcono, sinokwenza indlela yokukhetha kwethu, hayi nakweyiphi na indawo, kodwa enye apho uhambo lubabalwe ngeembono ezintle kunye nenkampani ebhetele.
Kwaye okwangoku, ubukhulu becala, siyawalibala la mandla ethu kwaye siwela kwipateni yobomi obuqhelekileyo apho iintsuku neenyanga neminyaka zihamba ngaphandle kotshintsho olukhulu ebomini bethu.
ufuna ukuyithatha kancinci
Siyayekelela ekubambeni kwethu kwivili lokuqhuba ebomini size sizivumele ukuba sikhukuliswe ngokungenanjongo phantsi kwayo nayiphi na indlela ephambi kwethu.
Inyani yile, akukho hlazo kuloo nto. Akukho namnye kuthi ekufuneka eve uxinzelelo lokuphila uhlobo oluthile lobomi, esenza iintlobo ezithile zezinto, ekhula ngeendlela ezichanekileyo.
ungaxelela njani umntu omthandayo ngaphezu kokubhaliweyo
Kodwa akufuneki sive neentloni ngokufuna ukukhula nokukhula kwaye siguquke sibe yinto, umntu owahlukileyo kule siyiyo ngoku.
Sonke sinakho ngaphakathi kuthi ukutshintsha ngeendlela ezichanekileyo, ukulahla imikhwa emibi, ukulahla iingqondo ezinetyhefu kunye nokuphelisa ubudlelwane obonakalisayo.
Ukhetho lolwethu ekufuneka silwenzile kwaye ngamnye kuthi kufuneka alinganise okuhle kunye nokubi ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi inyathelo elilungileyo.
Inyani yile, sonke sikhulele kwiimeko ezizodwa ngemfuza eyahlukileyo kunye nokukhula esikufumanayo kuphela.
Sonke sinezikrakra ezivela kwixesha lethu elidlulileyo, kodwa ezinye zibaleka nzulu kunabanye. Sonke sineenkumbulo ezintle, kodwa ezinye zimbalwa kunabanye.
Singaziva singakulungelanga ukuthatha uhambo oluya kuthatha amandla ethu kunye nesibindi, kwaye kulungile.
Kodwa ukuba siziva silungile, akukho xesha lingcono lokuzazisa sisuka kwidock yanamhlanje size sihambe ngomkhumbi siye kwikamva langomso.
Singathatha isigqibo sokuba loluphi uhlobo lomso esingathanda ukulubona, loluphi utshintsho esinokuthanda ukulwenza kubomi bethu. Nokuba le yinkululeko enkulu yexesha, ukhuseleko lwezezimali, ubudlelwane obungcono, sinokujolisa kuyo kwaye sizame ukuyenza yenzeke.
Inyani yile, siya kusilela amaxesha ngamaxesha. Akukho sicwangciso sihamba kakuhle. Siza kujongana nemizabalazo kwaye kuya kufuneka soyise izithintelo ukuba sifuna ukuphelela, ngokuthe ngcembe ukuya kwinjongo yethu.
Kwaye xa sisilele, kuya kuthatha konke ukomelela kunye nokuzimisela ukuphakama, sizivuthulule, sizame kwakhona.
Kodwa akukho tshintsho luza lula. Xa umbungu uba libhabhathane, utshintsho lwamandla luthatha phantse onke amandla ombungu onawo, kungasathethwa ke ngexesha elininzi.
Wazi njani ukuba niwele eluthandweni
Ke xa sifuna ukuziguqula sibe libhabhathane lokwenene elenziwa sithi, kufuneka sikulungele ukutyhala ngamaxesha anzima ukuze sandise amaphiko ethu kubomi bethu obutsha.
Inyani yile, uninzi lwethu luyayoyika into enokwenzeka ukuba sizama ukutshintsha ubomi bethu bube ngcono.
Nokuba yeyiphi imeko esizifumana sikuyo ngoku, kukho intuthuzelo ekwazini oko sikwaziyo. Isenokungasoloko imnandi, kodwa siyayazi.
Kwaye ukwahlukana nento esiyaziyo kukujongana noko singenako. Kukuhamba emnyango ungazi ukuba yintoni kwelinye icala. Ngokuqinisekileyo, sinokuba nombono othile kuba senza ubomi ngokuzikhethela kwethu, kodwa asazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba kuya kuba njani okanye silindele ntoni.
Kwaye, ewe, kuyothusa oko. Kwaye ukuze sityhalele kolo loyiko, kufuneka sizibuze ukuba yintoni eyoyikeka ngakumbi: ukukhula kunye nokutshintsha sibe ngcono kwihlabathi elitsha kuthi, okanye ukuhlala siqinile apho sikhona kubutofotofo bokungonwabi kwethu.
Inyani yile, siyazi xa sikulungele. Siva ilizwi elikhalazelayo liphuma ngaphakathi lisixelela ukuba kukho into efuna ukutshintsha.
uxelele umhlobo wakho ukuba uyabathanda
Ekuqaleni sinokucinga ukuba siyaphambana, ukuba izinto zilunge kanye ngendlela eziyiyo. Kodwa umyalezo awunasiphelo kwaye siqala ukuqonda ukuba kude nokuba ligeza, yeyona nto isengqiqweni nesengqiqweni esakhe sanayo.
Kwaye ke siqala uhambo lwethu, sithatha inyathelo lokuqala, siphosa amehlo ethu kwindawo ethile ekude kude, indlela ethile esifuna ukufikelela kuyo.
Ngenyathelo ngalinye esilithathayo, inkolelo yethu kuthi iyakhula kwaye umnqweno wethu wokuqhubeka ushukuma iba yinto engenakuthinteleka.
Inyaniso kukuba, uhambo alupheli. Akukho luhlobo lwe-nirvana apho singaphumla khona sithi 'sifikile!'
Kukho kuphela inyathelo elilandelayo kuhambo oluya kuthatha ubomi bethu bonke. Kodwa oko kuyasivuyisa kuba xa sele siwabonile amandla esinawo kwisiphelo sethu, sonwabela imiceli mngeni esijamelana nayo ngentshiseko engakumbi.
Oko akutsho ukuba asiyeki ukuzonwabisa njengoko sihamba. Ngapha koko, kuchasene kakhulu. Phakathi kwamanyathelo, sinokwaneliseka ngalo mzuzu wangoku kunanini na ngaphambili. Siyayibona inkqubela esele siyenzile, siyakubona okusaza kubakho, kodwa sinoxolo ngale ndawo siyibiza njengekhaya ngoku, ngoku.
Njengokuphazamiseka njengoko kuvakala, sifumana ukonwaba namhlanje sisazi ukuba ngomso siza kuthatha elinye inyathelo kunye nelinye. Uhambo lwethu, naphina apho lungakhokelela khona, luluhlu nje lwanamhlanje, ngalinye liyanelisa kunelokugqibela.
Inyani yile, singabayili bekamva lethu. Sisebenza kwiplani esoloko itshintsha kwaye isanda apho sinokuthi, xa sikulungele, sizenzele ubomi obonwabisayo nobonelisayo.
Inyani yile… ubomi bobethu ekwenzeni. Ke phuma uyenze.
Ithetha ukuthini xa umfana esithi intle yakho
