Ukutshintsha ubomi bakho yiprojekthi enkulu. Zininzi ii-angles ezahlukileyo kuyo kangangokuba zonke zinokuziva zinamandla kakhulu.
Kuhlala kuthatha ixesha kunye nomsebenzi onzima ukufezekisa iintlobo zeenjongo ezihamba notshintsho olubalulekileyo ebomini.
Kunokuba nzima ukuqala, kwaye kunokuba nzima ukugcina inkuthazo eyaneleyo yokufumana lonke uhambo.
Kungenxa yoko le nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukufumana inkuthazo eqinileyo yokukunceda ukuba uqalise kunye nokugcina umkhondo ngelixa uzityumza ezo njongo.
Nangona siza kujonga kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo yenkuthazo, kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba ayizukusebenzela yonke into wonke umntu. Abanye abantu bakuthola kulula ukuhlala bephefumlelwe kwaye bekhuthazekile kunabanye. Izinto ezikukhuthazayo zisenokungakhuthazi umntu olandelayo.
Konke oko kulungile. Khangela izinto ezihambelana nawe, ezibangela ukuba uphakame kwaye uthi, 'Ewe, kunengqiqo!'
Emva koko yenza ezo zinto zivakala rhoqo ebomini bakho. Oko kuya kukunceda ukuba uqhubeke uye phambili xa unenye ingxaki.
Ungayifumana phi inkuthazo yokutshintsha ubomi bakho?
1. Ngengqondo yekratshi kunye nokufezekisa okufumanayo ngokufikelela kwiinjongo zakho.
Ukwamkela indlela ejolise kwinjongo akuncedi kuphela ekucwangciseni ikhosi eya empumelelweni kodwa kunokukugcina uhamba xa ufuna inkuthazo.
Ukufezekisa injongo kubangela ukuba ingqondo ikunike ukugqabhuka kwemichiza yokuziva ulungile kunye ne-endorphins umvuzo omncinci womzimba wokufezekisa. Abanye abantu, imvakalelo yokujonga enye injongo ingaphezulu nje ngokwaneleyo ukuba igcine ishukuma.
Kwaye xa ufikelele esiphelweni, ungajonga ngasemva kuhambo olwenzileyo kwaye wazi ukuba ngumsebenzi wakho onzima kunye nomzamo okukufikisileyo apho ubufuna ukuba khona.
Cwangcisa uluhlu lweenjongo-ezimfutshane, eziphakathi kunye nezide. Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokufumana iinjongo zakho ezimfutshane neziphakathi kukucwangcisa iinjongo zakho zexesha elide. Maninzi amanyathelo ekufuneka uwathathile (iinjongo ezimfutshane kunye neziphakathi) ukufikelela kwinjongo yexesha elide. Yindlela elula yokuhamba ngokumisela iinjongo.
Qiniseka ukuba ezo njongo zi-SMART-ezithile, ziyalinganiseka, ziyafezekiseka, ziyinyani kwaye zifike ngexesha.
2. Kwiincwadi ezikhuthazayo, iipodcast, okanye enye imithombo yeendaba.
Indlela inde kwaye icela umngeni ekwenzeni utshintsho ebomini. Kunokuba luncedo ukujonga kwabanye abantu esele bazifezekisile iinjongo ozibekele zona. Xa usilela, unokujonga umzabalazo wabo kunye nohambo lokufumana inkuthazo.
Zininzi kakhulu iincwadi ezikhuthazayo, iipodcast, izithethi kunye neevidiyo apho ukuze ube nakho ukufumana into enokugcina ukukhanya kwintlantsi yakho.
Kuphephe ukuthelekisa uhambo lwakho, nangona. Umntu okhuthazayo? Ubomi babo bohlukile kunobu bakho. Uya kuba nemiceli mngeni eyahlukeneyo ukoyisa, ngenxa yoko usenokuzabalaza kwiindawo abangazange benze kuzo. Kwaye ukuba bebenendlela yakho, mhlawumbi bangazabalaza kwiindawo oye waphefumlela phezulu kuzo.
Musa ukubanjwa kakhulu kwezo nkcukacha. Vumela umsebenzi wokukhuthaza ukuvuselele kwaye ugcine uhamba phambili.
3. Ekuboniseni ubungqina bakho okanye ukungathandabuzeki kwakho kuphosakele.
Nangona inokuba sisikhuthazi esinamandla xa yonke into iziva imnyama kwaye inenkohlakalo. Kobo bumnyama, ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukwamkela isiqwenga sayo kunokuba uzame ukubaleka kubo.
Mhlawumbi unabantu ofuna ukungqina abantu abangalunganga abakuxelele ukuba awukwazi ukuyenza. Mhlawumbi ayingobantu mhlawumbi yingqondo yakho, ukwenzakala, okanye ukugula ngengqondo okusoloko kukuxelela ukuba awufanelanga okanye awunakho.
Kwaye mhlawumbi, mhlawumbi, ngamafutha ekufuneka uwaphule iinjongo zakho. Ngqina abantu abangafanelekanga. Vavanya iingcinga ezingalunganga kunye nokungaphili engqondweni. Yisebenzise njengombane ukuze uzinike amandla, jolisa kwinto onokuyenza kwaye uza kuyifeza, kwaye uqhubeke nokuqhubela phambili xa konke kuzama ukukulinganisa.
Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukufumana ukukhanya, ithemba kunye nobuhle kwiindawo ezimnyama. Kodwa nangona kunjalo? Nangona kungekho nto ikude kangako. Vavanya zonke izinto ezingalunganga kwaye uqhubeke.
4. Ukuxhasa abahlobo, amaqela enkxaso, okanye iingcali.
Abantu zizidalwa zentlalo. Sithanda ukwenza ngcono kakhulu kumaqela nakwindawo esihlala kuzo kunakwabantu abodwa.
Ubulolo bungenza umsebenzi onzima ube nzima ngakumbi. Kodwa ukunxibelelana kwezentlalo kunokunceda ukomeleza imo yomntu, isimo sakhe sengqondo, kunye nokuzimisela ekwenzeni izinto.
Oko kunokuba kukujikeleze ngabantu abaqinisekileyo, abanethemba abakunika inkxaso xa usokola.
Kusenokubakho uluntu okanye iqela elijonge ukufezekisa uhlobo lweenguqulelo zobomi ojonge ukuzenza. Ukuba ufuna ukuhlala usempilweni okanye ukunciphisa umzimba, kusengqiqweni ukujoyina iqela apho abanye abantu besebenzela ukunciphisa umzimba kunye nokulahla ubunzima ngokwabo.
Ukuba awunayo inkxaso yobuqu okanye awukwazi ukufumana indawo elungileyo yoluntu, inkxaso yobungcali inokuba yinto elungileyo. Uyakufuna ukuba ugqirha ajongane nemicimbi yezempilo yengqondo ofuna ukuyoyisa. Kodwa kwizinto ezinje ngeenjongo zobungcali okanye zobuqu, unokufumanisa ukuba ikhondo lomsebenzi okanye umqeqeshi wobomi lukhetho olufanelekileyo.
Akukho nto igwenxa ngokufumana uncedo lwangaphandle oluncinci xa ulufuna. Kwaye unokufumana eyakho inkuthazo ekubuyiseleni kwabo bantu xa uthe ekugqibeleni wafikelela kwiinjongo zakho. Unokuba yinkxaso kunye nenkuthazo kubo!
5. Ekuphakamiseni nasekuzalisekiseni iimfundiso ezisisiseko, injongo, kunye no “ngoba”.
Kutheni ucinga ngale nto? Kutheni uthathe isigqibo sokutshintsha ubomi bakho?
Ngaba kungenxa yosapho lwakho? Abahlobo? Ukungonwabi kunye nawe okanye ubomi bakho? Ngaba kukufezekisa injongo ethile oziva utsaliwe kwaye ubizelwe ukusebenza kuyo? Ngaba kungenxa yokuba ixabiso elithile lelona libaluleke kakhulu kuwe ukuze ulizalisekise?
“Kutheni” umnqweno wakho wokutshintsha ubomi bakho ungakunika inkuthazo oyifunayo xa amaxesha esiba nzima.
Kunokukunceda ukubhala phantsi isizathu sakho ukuze ubuyele kuyo xa uziva uphantsi kwinjongo yakho. Jonga emva kwesizathu sokuba uqale kwasekuqaleni kwaye ugcine oko kuphambi kwengqondo yakho.
Kwaye khumbula, ungaqala ngaphezulu. Kungenxa yokuba uyaphambuka, ubuyela umva, okanye unexesha elinzima oko akuthethi ukuba awungekhe uphinde ubuye umva ngokuzama ukwenza izigqibo ezingcono.
Umahluko phakathi kokuthi, 'ndim owenza ukhetho apha,' kunye nokuvumela ingxaki ukuba iphume kulawulo.
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6. Kwimivuzo ebonakalayo, ebonakalayo.
Imivuzo ebonakalayo inokusebenza njengesizathu sokwenza utshintsho olunzima. Banceda ukubonelela ngomthombo wekhonkrithi wolwaneliseko kunye nempumelelo.
Oko kunokuba ngohlobo lokuzithengela isipho esincinci, ukuzinyanga ngokwako kumassage, okanye mhlawumbi uthathe iholide oyifunayo.
Sukulinda ukuba ezi zinto zikhule ngengozi kwinkqubo. Endaweni yoko, faka imbuyekezo ngokugqitywa kweenjongo zokuba nento onokuthi ujonge kuyo kwangoko.
Kulungile ukuthatha ixesha elincinci ukubhiyozela xa udibana nenye yeenjongo zakho! Olo phawu luya kunceda ukuqinisa umsebenzi kwaye kukugcine kwindlela efanelekileyo yokufezekisa iinjongo zexesha elide.
Cinga ngendlela imbuyekezo yakho echaphazela ngayo iinjongo zakho zizonke. Umzekelo, kunokuba yingozi ukuzivuza ngokutya okunyangayo xa uzama ukugcina ukutya. Oko kunokubangela ukubuyela umva kokutya okungenampilo oya kuthi emva koko woyise kwakhona. Qinisekisa ukuba imivuzo yakho ayonakalisi iinjongo zakho.
7. Ukuphucula impilo yakho ukuze uphile ubomi obunempilo, obusebenzayo.
Ngaba uyafuna ukuba sempilweni? Ngaba ubenobomi obude obonwabisayo nosapho lwakho? Ngaba unawo amandla okubaleka kunye ne-rough-house kancinci nabantwana okanye abazukulwana?
Indlela yokuphila esempilweni inokuthintela iingxaki ezibalulekileyo zempilo ekubeni zingakunxibi kamva ebomini. Izifo ezinjengeswekile kunye nesifo sentliziyo zixhaphakile kwaye kulula kakhulu ukuzithintela ngolawulo olusebenzayo lokutya kwakho, umthambo kunye nempilo.
Oko akubandakanyi nezibonelelo zemihla ngemihla. Indlela yokuphila esempilweni inokunceda ekukhuseleni ezinye izifo ezinje ngemikhuhlane kunye neempawu zokwaliwa komzimba kunye nokuphucula impilo yakho yengqondo kunye nembono yobomi.
Ukuba sempilweni kokuphila ubomi obusebenzayo kuya kuba kokonwaba ngakumbi, ukhetho oluninzi, kunye nexesha elilula lokuqhubeka ebomini. Umzimba womntu awakhelwanga ukuba uhlale phantsi. Ngumatshini ocoliweyo ococekileyo ofuna ukuqhutywa, ukugcinwa, kunye nokunyanyekelwa rhoqo ukuba ufuna ukufumana okungcono.
Kulula kakhulu ukonwabela ubomi bakho kunye nokuzonwabisa xa ukhuthele kwaye usempilweni.
8. Ekwenzeni iinjongo zakho njengenxalenye yeshedyuli yakho yesiqhelo.
Inkuthazo inokwakhiwa ngokuphindaphinda. Ufaka iinjongo zakho kwishedyuli yakho kwaye uzamkele njengenxalenye yezinto ozenzayo.
Masithi ungumntu oxakekileyo oneembopheleleko ezininzi. Kwimeko apho, izinto ezinjengokuzikhathalela ngendlela yokuphumla kunye nokuzilolonga zinokukhawuleza zikhutshelwe ngaphandle kwezinye izinto, ezibonakala zibaluleke ngakumbi.
Ayisiyonto ungayivumela yenzeke. Kufuneka ube nguwe obeka umthetho kwishedyuli yakho kunye noxanduva lokuqinisekisa ukuba izinto ozifunayo ziyaqwalaselwa.
Umzekelo, masithi ufuna ukutya usempilweni ukunciphisa umzimba kunye nokuphucula impilo yakho. Uya kudinga ukwenza ixesha kwishedyuli yakho yokucwangcisela ukutya, ukuthenga ukutya kunye nokulungiselela ukutya. Ungafumanisa ukuba awunaxesha laneleyo lokwenza ezo zinto ukuba akunjalo. Ukuphosa iseshoni yokucwangcisa isidlo kuthetha ukuba awungekhe uyenze ivenkile yokuthenga, oko kuthetha ukuba unokufumana ngaphandle kokujongana nayo.
Inkuthazo ayifanelanga ukuba yinto engaboniyo, eqaqambileyo. Inokwakhiwa kwakhona ngokuphindaphinda. Uhlala phantsi wenze isicwangciso sokutya ngoMgqibelo ebusuku, ukuze uye kuthenga evenkileni ngeCawa kusasa ukuze ufumane ukutya okumnandi iveki yonke. Kwaye uyaphinda uyenze kwakhona kwiveki ezayo kuba yile nto uyenzayo ngelo xesha.
9. Kwimeko yokuba uyifanele ngokwenene ...
Mhlawumbi esona sipho sikhulu senkuthazo kunye nenkuthazo kubo bonke - kuba uyifanele.
Ufanele ukuphila uhlobo lobomi ofuna ukuluphila. Ufanele ukuba noxolo, ulonwabo kunye nempilo entle. Kusenokuba nzima ukufika apho. Kunokubakho izithintelo kunye nemiqobo njengoko usebenzela ukuphumelela.
Kodwa kulungile! Kuba amabali ayadika xa onke ehamba kakuhle. Ubunzima buyanceda ekwakheni isimilo, kukucela umngeni ekucingeni ngokwahlukileyo kwaye uphuphe umkhulu.
Ke xa usilela kwaye ubuza ukuba ungayenza na, zikhumbuze ukuba awungekhe uyenze nje kuphela kodwa kufanelekile ukuba uyenze nayo.
Khumbula ukuzikhawulezisa!
Kwaye okokugqibela… khumbula ukuzikhawulezisa. Isigqibo sokutshintsha ubomi bakho sisikhulu esiza kufuna umsebenzi omninzi. Lo msebenzi uza kudinisa. Kuza kubakho amaxesha apho uya kufuna ukuphosa itawuli xa uziva uxakekile. Kulungile! Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo kwaye kufuneka ilindelwe.
Isisombululo kule ngxaki kukuthatha ikhefu. Yima uphumle ithutyana. Ukuzikhupha ngokwakho akuyi kukusa kwizisombululo onethemba lazo. Nangona ungafika apho ufuna ukuya khona kwaye ufumanise ukuba ayisiyiyo le nto ubucinga ngayo.
Oko kulungile. Ungasoloko useta injongo entsha.
Okanye mhlawumbi kuya kuba yinto echaseneyo. Mhlawumbi uza kufika apho, kwaye kuya kuba ngcono ngakumbi kunokuba ubucinga.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungayifumana njani inkuthazo yokutshintsha ubomi bakho? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukudibanisa nenye.
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