Amanyathelo ama-8 kuKhangelo oluPhumeleleyo lomphefumlo

Yeyiphi Imovie Ukubona?
 



Sonke siyazi xa kukho into engaziva ilungile.

Nokuba ngaba yimeko esijamelana nayo, okanye ulwalamano olungalinganiyo njengoko sicinga ukuba kufanelekile, okanye luvo nje ngokubanzi lwe-ennui.



Ngokuqinisekileyo uyakwazi oku, kuba ufunda le kwaye uzama ukuqonda ukuba kutheni ungonwabanga kwaye kufuneka wenze ntoni ngayo.

Nokuba ungahamba ngantoni, kungenzeka ukuba ukubonwa ngokuzolileyo okuqinisekileyo kulungelelaniswe.

Nangona ukhe walifumana igama elithi 'ukukhangela umphefumlo' ngaphambili, usenokulichitha njengesiqhelo sobudala esithetha kwaye ungalithathi nzulu.

Eyona nto kukuba, ukukhangela komphefumlo ayisiyiyo Yitya, Thandaza, Thanda Injongo yokufumana eyona nto uzithandayo.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, kunokuba njalo ukuba uziva unyuka intaba iNepalese ukuya zifumane , kodwa eyona nto ibaluleke ngakumbi inokufikelelwa.

Ekugqibeleni, kubandakanya ukuzihlalela phantsi kwaye ucinge ngokwenene malunga nendlela oziva ngayo ngento ethile.

Oku kunokuba njalo ukuze ube nokucaca ngakumbi malunga nemeko okanye isenzo ekufuneka usithathile, okanye nokuba uqonde nje ukuba kutheni uziphatha ngendlela ethile.

Eli binzana ngokwalo linokuvakala lingenangqondo, kodwa ngokwenene yindlela eqinileyo yokufumana ukucaca okufunayo.

Kutheni ukufuna umphefumlo kubalulekile?

Ngesizathu esilula: uninzi lwabantu lukhona abanganyanisekanga kubo malunga nezinto ezahlukeneyo kuba ukujongana nenyaniso enzima kubuhlungu.

Sithanda ukunqanda ukungonwabi kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kwaye ngokubanzi sikhetha ukugcina imeko ekuyo kunokumba nzulu kwaye sinyaniseke malunga nokuba kutheni singonwabanga okanye singonelisekanga.

Ngamanye amaxesha abantu bathi abazi ukuba kutheni beziphatha ngendlela ethile, okanye kutheni beziva ngale ndlela baziva ngayo.

Banokuxhalaba kakhulu kwaye banxunguphele kwaye bagxothe u 'kutheni' ngentetho ethile egxothayo kuba abafuni ukuyamkela into.

Kuyafana nokukhetha malunga nemisebenzi, ubudlelwane, njl.

Ukukhangela komphefumlo kusikhuthaza ukuba sinyaniseke kwiziqu zethu nakwabanye - malunga noko siziva ngokwenene.

Malunga nento esifuna ukuyenza kwaye sifuna ukuba yiyo.

Malunga neenjongo zethu ezinyanisekileyo, iminqweno, ukuthanda, uvuyo, usizi, nayo yonke into ephakathi.

Xa singazivuma zonke ezo zinto ngokunyaniseka, kuthi nakwabanye, sinokuphila ubomi obunyanisekileyo.

Kwaye ubomi obuphila ngeNyaniso buzaliseka ngakumbi kunalapho sizenza into esingayo, ukuze sonwabe abanye abantu.

Ngaba Kuthetha Ukuthini ukuKhangela komphefumlo?

Yicinge njengokuchonga umba kanye kwindawo yayo.

Umatshini wokumakisha ubusuku ezintlanu ku-freddy's

Ukuba uqhelene nenkqubo, oku kuya kufana nokusombulula ingxaki ukuze umisele umthombo wempazamo yekhowudi.

Ukuba kukho into engaziphathi ngendlela ekufanele ukuba uyenze, okanye ayikuniki iziphumo obuzilindele, kukho isizathu sayo: ngumsebenzi wakho ukuyifumana, emva koko uthathe isigqibo sokuba uyisombulula njani.

Kuyafana nendlela yonyango. Xa iimpawu zibonakala, kuxhomekeke kuthi ukubuza imibuzo yeebazillion ukumisela ukuba zibangelwa yintoni.

Njengokuba umqala obuhlungu unokuthetha nantoni na ukusuka kwi-allergies ukuya kwi-tonsillitis, imvakalelo 'engalunganga kwaphela' malunga nemeko, isigqibo, okanye indlela yokuziphatha inokuvela kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo eyahlukeneyo.

Ukuchonga umthombo wemicimbi onayo, kufuneka ujonge ngaphakathi.

Oku kunokuba nzima ngakumbi ukuba uye waphelelwa ngamacandelo okanye wabekwa egumbini ukuze uqhubeke uye phambili xa uxinezelekile.

Usenokuba ushiye phantsi imeko yakho ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kwaye wayeka ukucinga malunga nokungazalisekisi kwakho.

Kodwa ukucacisa u-Anais Nin ovela kuThixo, umhla usenokufika xa umngcipheko wokuhlala uqinile kwi-bud ibuhlungu ngaphezu komngcipheko oza kuthatha ukuba uqhakaze.

Uphendla njani Umphefumlo omnye?

Ndiyazi ukuba ndihlala ndikhuthaza abantu ukuba babhale kwiijenali zabo, kodwa kungenxa yesizathu esivakalayo: ukwenza njalo kuluncedo olukhulu ekusebenzeni ngendlela yethu kwiiphazili nakwimiba yobuqu.

Eli lelinye lala maxesha xa ukubeka zonke iingcinga zakho ephepheni kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu.

Ukubhala konke oku kuzisa izimvo kwindawo ebonakalayo ukuze ukwazi ukuzihlela ngokuhamba kwexesha, endaweni yokulahleka kwimimoya yokucinga.

Ikwabonelela ngesiqalo esihle sokubuyela umva: ungabuyela kula maphepha ejenali amaxesha ngamaxesha ukuze ubone ukuba ingakanani inkqubela phambili oyenzileyo, okanye uqaphele ukuba utyibilikile ngasemva.

Unayo ingxelo yakho kunye nepeni? Egqwesileyo. Masiqalise.

1. Uyazithoba

Thatha umoya onzulu, kwaye ujonge ekwehliseni amagxa akho ezantsi, kude neendlebe zakho.

Ukuba ubusoloko unoxinzelelo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ziphantse zangaphezulu kweenyawo kunokuba kufanelekile ngoku.

Kuyafana ukuba ulwimi lwakho lucinezelwe kuphahla lomlomo wakho, kunye / okanye amazinyo axineneyo.

imibuzo ukubuza iqabane lakho kubudlelwane

Thatha ukuphefumla okunzulu okumbalwa. Zenzele ikomityi yeti (okanye umhluzi wethambo, okanye enye into ezolisayo nehlaziyayo).

Ukuba kukho indawo ethe cwaka ungaya ngaphandle, yiya wenze njalo. Chitha imizuzu embalwa uhoya indalo ejikeleze wena, ngelixa ucotha isiselo sakho esimnandi.

2. Cima ifowuni yakho / Phuma kuyo yonke iMidiya yokuncokola

Ngoku asiloxesha leziphazamiso. Akukho loyiko lokuphoswa, apha.

Ujolise kwinto ebalulekileyo kuwe, ke susa ukubakho kokuphazamiseka ngokuphuma kuzo zonke iiakhawunti zakho zemidiya yoluntu.

Yiya ukubeka ifowuni yakho kunye / okanye ithebhulethi kwelinye igumbi. Tshixa umnyango ukuba kunyanzelekile.

Beka nantoni na eya kukuvumela ukuba udibanise okanye ungashenxisi ingqalelo yakho kude nomsebenzi owenzayo.

Zonke ezi ziphazamiso zikuncede ukuba ukwazi ukunqanda ukwenza kanye le uyenzayo ngoku, esebenza kwisisombululo esibambekayo. Musa ukuzenzakalisa.

3. Thatha uKujonga ngokunyaniseka Kwimeko Ekukhathazayo

Nokuba uluhlobo lomntu okhetha 'uthando olunzima' okanye isandla esithambileyo, ngoku lixesha lokuba uthembeke kwisiqu sakho.

Yiza, thanda. Yintoni ekukhathazayo?

Yintoni le ikushiya ungonwabanga? Awuzalisekanga? Udidekile?

Ukuba ufunda oku ngesikhokelo samanyathelo ngamanyathelo, mhlawumbi sele unayo impendulo eyinxalenye yoku.

Kulungile ukuba ungacacanga ekuqaleni ukuba uziva ngathi awunako ukubeka umnwe wakho ngqo kuyo le nto ikwenza ube yimbovane.

Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, yinxalenye yenkqubo yokukhangela umphefumlo. Ukuba ubuzazi zonke iinkcukacha ezintle, ngekhe ubekhona kule nto yangaphakathi, akunjalo?

Bhala izivakalisi ezimbalwa ezibandakanya indlela oziva ngayo ngoku. Kwaye emva koko bambalwa ngaphezulu ukwandisa kubo.

Kulungile ukuba azicacanga kwaye azikho mgaqweni: yiba nokholo lokuba ingcaciso iya kuvela nokuba kubonakala ngathi sisiphithiphithi esikhulu ngoku.

zijenny kunye nes sumit kunye

Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):

4. Bhala yonke into ekwenza wonwabe / unombulelo

Ewe, lolunye uluhlu!

Le yindawo apho ubhala phantsi yonke into ekwenza wonwabe kunye / okanye nombulelo.

Ixesha nabahlobo, ukukhanya kwelanga, izilwanyana ohamba nazo, ukutya okuthandayo, ukubambezela njengemvubu eyonwabileyo ebhafini de ube ulumkile… zibhale zonke.

Ngokuqinisekileyo yonke into igcwalisa intliziyo yakho ngokukhanya kunye nombulelo. Yibhale phantsi nokuba ibonakala iyisidenge, okanye ulutsha, okanye ukuzonwabisa.

Nokuba yintoni ekwenza uncume kwaye ukhanyise ukukhanya entliziyweni yakho kufuneka uye kuluhlu, nokuba kuthatha iiyure kunye namaphepha aliqela.

Njengoko ubhala, yazi ukuba into nganye ikwenza uzive njani. Beka i-asterisk (*) okanye olunye uphawu olunemincili ecaleni kwezi zikwenza wonwabe.

Xa siziva sinoxinzelelo okanye silahlekile, sihlala sichitha ixesha elininzi kakhulu sigxile kuko konke okungahambi kakuhle okanye okusicaphukisayo kunathi kwimiba yobomi bethu ezisizisela uvuyo.

Siphela sithatha izinto (nabantu) ngokungakhathali, endaweni yokubhiyozela konke ukulunga.

Ukuba noluhlu olubonakalayo phambi kwethu kusikhumbuza malunga nokuba kuninzi kangakanani ukuba nombulelo ngento esivulela ulonwabo olungenakulinganiswa.

5. Qaphela into engekhoyo kuLuhlu lwakho 'olonwabileyo'

Eli candelo lincinci, kwaye ngokungathandabuzekiyo yinxalenye yale nkqubo ubuzama ukuyiphepha.

Sukuya uyokufikelela kwifowuni yakho okanye uzenzele i-snack ngoku - lixesha lokwenza ukuphakamisa okunzima ngaphandle kokuphepha.

Bamba isiqwenga sephepha ukuze kungafuneki ukuba ujikeleze uye phambili kwijenali yakho.

Nokuba yeyiphi na engakhange iyenze eyakho 'le iyamangalisa kwaye ndonwabile ukuba nayo ebomini bam' uluhlu luzakubhalwa kweli phepha.

Thembeka, nokuba kunzima.
(Iya kuba nzima)

Njengoko ubhala izinto ezingonwabisiyo / abantu abakolu luhlu, unokuziva ungqubana.

Xa amagama abanye abantu efika engqondweni, unokuziva unyanzelekile ukuba uwabeke kuluhlu lwakho 'olonwabileyo' kuba bayintsapho, okanye ubazi ngonaphakade, okanye nayiphi na enye * ifanele ukuba ingene entlokweni yakho.

Oku ayikokugcina ukubonakala okanye ukuzenzisa. Oku malunga nokufumana okwenyani kunye nokunyaniseka malunga nokuba yintoni engasebenziyo ebomini bakho, ukuze wenze utshintsho olomeleleyo lube ngcono.

Gcina izicwili ziluncedo, njengoko ngokungathandabuzekiyo kuya kubakho ukuphazamiseka ngokweemvakalelo njengoko usenza kwaye unokufuna.

Yenza iisimboli / iinkwenkwezi ezifanayo ecaleni kwezinto ezikolu luhlu njengoko wenzile kwixa elidlulileyo, kuphela ngeli xesha uza kuphawula ecaleni kwezinto / abantu / iimeko ezikwenza uzive uxinezelekile, ungonwabanga okanye ungenanto .

Ezi zinto zinenkwenkwezi kuluhlu 'olungonwabanga' kufuneka zijongwe kancinci, eziya kuthi zibe nzima… kodwa oko kunyanzelekile.

6. Thembeka malunga nesizathu sokuba ungaziva wonwabile / ungonelisekanga

Nganye nganye, hamba kuzo zonke izinto ezikuluhlu lwe 'blergh' kwaye uzame ukumisela ukuba kutheni ezi meko / izinto / abantu benga vuyisi.

Akukho mntu uza kubona olu luhlu ngaphandle kwakho, ke ungatsiba iqhinga kwaye uthembeke ngokumasikizi.

Zive ukhululekile ukuba wenze isebe kwaye wenze i-doodle kwaye ubhale amagama angacwangciswanga- nantoni na eya kukunceda ucacise ukuba kutheni, ngokuchanekileyo, awonwabanga ngoku.

Ukuba ulwa nolwalamano lwakho kwaye awukwazi ukubeka umnwe wakho kwinto ekuhluphayo ngayo, zama ukucinga ngeziganeko ezahlukeneyo ezikucaphukisileyo.

Ngaba iqabane lakho belingakhathali? Okanye ukuthatha ithuba lakho?

Ngaba uzama ukugcina i-facade ocinga ukuba bayifumana inomdla ngakumbi, kodwa akunjalo ngokwenene?

Ngaba usenomdla kulo mntu?

Ngaba nihlala kunye ngenxa yokuthuthuzeleka nokhuseleko, okanye ngenxa yokuba niyonwabela ngokwenyani ukuba kunye?

Buza imibuzo efanayo ukuba ii-asterisks zikufutshane namagama abahlobo, ikhondo lomsebenzi, izinto ozithandayo, kunye nezilwanyana zasekhaya.

Izinto ezi-5 zokwenza xa udikiwe

7. Cinga ngamanyathelo afunekayo ukulungisa imeko yakho

Nje ukuba ube nomfanekiso ocacileyo wokuba kutheni ungonwabanga, cinga ngento ekufuneka uyenzile ukuze wenze utshintsho lwenene.

Umzekelo, ukuba uyawonwabela umsebenzi wakho kodwa uziva ungonelisekanga emsebenzini, cinga ukuba kutheni, kwaye kuya kufuneka wenze ntoni ukulungisa oko.

Ngaba uyakruquka apho? Ngaba uziva ngathi kufuneka ucelwe umngeni ngakumbi emsebenzini? Kulungile, sisiqalo esihle eso.

- Yeyiphi imiceli mngeni oziva ukuba uya kuyidinga okanye uyayifuna?

- Ngaba ujonge uxanduva olukhulu?

Ngaba uziva ungahlonitshwa ngoogxa bakho? Ngaba ukunyuswa kungayilungisa loo nto?

- Ngaba izakhono zakho zamkelwe / zisetyenziselwa awona mandla makhulu anawo?

-Unezimvo ezintle ngokwenene owaziyo ukuba ziya kuphucula izinto?

-Yintoni enokuvuselela umdla wakho kulo msebenzi?

Ngena nzulu, kwaye uzibuze yonke imibuzo enokuthi qatha engqondweni. Ngokubuza le mibuzo, ufumana umfanekiso ocacileyo wezisombululo ezinokubakho kuyo nantoni na ebikhathaza intliziyo yakho.

8. Yenza iSicwangciso soTshintsho lwenene

Masakhe kumzekelo wangaphambili kancinci: ukuba khange uzive uceliwe ngumsebenzi, ngenxa yoko ubukhe wawutsalela umnxeba kwaye ungazami ngenzame.

Ukuba unezimvo ezintle ongathanda ukuzizalisekisa, zibhale phantsi kwaye wenze umendo obaluleke kakhulu oqinisekileyo obonisa indlela oza kuwabeka ngayo.

Yiba neenkcukacha malunga nokuba ezi zimvo zingayinceda njani inkampani kwangoko, kwaye ekuhambeni kwexesha.

Emva koko, cela umphathi / umphathi wakho ukuba ungabhukisha ixesha elithile nabo ukuze nixoxe ngako konke oku.

izophuma nini 2k22

Abanye abantu bayothuka okanye boyike xa bethetha nabaphathi babo, njengoko oko kuhlala kunxulunyaniswa nokunganaki, kodwa akukho mfuneko yalonto! Sondela kubo ngokuzithemba kunye nomdlandla kwaye ngokungathandabuzekiyo baya kujonga loo nto kanye.

Ukwenza ezi ntlobo zezicwangciso zisebenzele nayiphi na inkalo yobomi bakho ofuna ukuyiphucula, ukusuka kubudlelwane bakho ukuya ekhayeni lakho, impilo / impilo, kunye nobomi bakho bokudala.

Nje ukuba wenze oku kukhangela komphefumlo kwaye uzimisele ngoba awonwabanga, indlela oyenzayo inokuthi- kwaye iya kukukhokelela kumgxobhozo wosizi kwaye ubuyele elangeni.

Oku ngekhe kwenzeke ngobusuku obunye, ke yinyani malunga neenjongo zexesha.

Ukuba ujonge ukuphulukana ne-50lbs, khumbula ukuba abo khange baphose ubusuku obunye: sebenza nesondlo kunye nomqeqeshi kwaye ujonge ukulahleka ngendlela esempilweni.

Ukuba ubudlelwane bakho buhamba kakubi okwethutyana, ayizukujika ngomlingo ngaphakathi kweveki. Omabini amaqabane kufuneka atyale imali ekwenzeni utshintsho lokwenyani, ke jonga unyango lwababini ukuba nobabini nigqibe kwelokuba nisebenzisane kunye.

Yintoni Ofanele Uyiphephe Ukwenza?

Ewe, okokuqala nokuphambili, kungcono ukuba unqande nje ukwenza izinto ngendlela obukade uyiyo, kuba le ndlela yangoku ngokucacileyo ayikuniki ukuzaliseka kunye nolonwabo olufunayo.

Njengokuba usenza iijenali kwaye usenza uluhlu, qaphela izifundo ofuna ukuziphepha, okanye ezibangela uxinzelelo.

Ezo zezona zibaluleke kakhulu ekugxilwe kuzo, kuba ziindawo zethenda onomdla wokumka kuzo.

Unokuziva uthambekele ekugaleleni amandla akho kwiindawo ezimbalwa ezinokungonwabi kwaye kulula ukuzilungisa. Kwaye kulungile… okwangoku.

Ayisiyongxaki yokwenyani (onokuthi udanise kuyo kuba iza kugwetywa nzima ukuyilungisa), kodwa ukwenza utshintsho oluncinci kunokunceda ukukhulisa ukuzithemba kwakho ukuze wenze izinto ezinkulu.

Into yokugqibela ofuna ukuyenza kukunikezela kwimpendulo yakho yenqwelomoya. Ukwenza njalo kuya kukugcina unxibile kanye apho ukhona, kwaye ayisiyiyo apho ufuna ukuba khona, akunjalo?

Ewe, utshintsho luyothusa, kwaye ukwenza utshintsho olubalulekileyo olwaziyo luyimfuneko kunokubenzakalisa abantu abasondeleyo kuwe, ngakumbi ukuba bahlala kakuhle ngezinto njengoko zinjalo.

Kodwa uyazi isaga esidala ngoku: 'iindawo zentuthuzelo zilungile, kodwa akukho nto ikhula kuzo.'

Ukhangela umphefumlo wakho ngesizathu.

Musa ukuzenzela okungekho sikweni ekwenzeni lo msebenzi unzima ukuze ufumane iimpendulo zakho, emva koko ungazihoyi kuba yeyona nto ilula ukuyenza.