Ndizama ukubeka umnwe wam kuyo - isizathu okanye izizathu zokuba kutheni sinceda abanye abantu - kodwa kukho ubunzima kumcimbi ofuna ukuphononongwa. Ndinoluvo lokuba inokuphakamisa imibuzo engaphezulu kuneempendulo zayo…
Okokuqala, manditsho ukuba andinguye umntu onguMama Teresa, kodwa ndizama kwaye ndenze into encinci ukunceda abanye xa ndinako. Ndingathanda ukucinga ukuba uninzi lwabantu lubambe umbono ofanayo, kodwa yintoni le iqhuba ukuba sonke sizincame?
Kwinqanaba lokuqonda, andilindelanga ukubuya nantoni na xa ndinceda abantu, kwaye andiqinisekanga nokuba ndiyakholelwa kwi karma, ke, ekuboneni kuqala, andicingi ukuba yile nto indiqhubayo .
Icandelo lam licinga ukuba ndikhuthazwe kukwazi ukuba ndingenza umntu onwabe kancinci. Mhlawumbi ndiyakwazi ukunxibelelana noxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo oluhlala luhlala kwabo bafuna uncedo, kwaye ndinqwenela ukubanciphisa kwezi mvakalelo.
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Ke, ngelixa ikarma iseyinto endingaqinisekanga ngayo ngengqondo engqongqo, kukho into kum efuna ukuphatha abantu ngendlela endinqwenela ukuphathwa ngayo. Ukuba ibindim odinga uncedo, ndiqinisekile ndiyathemba ukuba umntu othile angayibona le nto kwaye elula isandla sakhe kum.
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Enye inkcazo enokwenzeka yokuba ndinqwenela ukunceda kukuba ndiyabazi ubomi obunelungelo elikhulu endibuphilayo. Ndihlala kwelinye lawona mazwe atyebileyo emhlabeni, ndinophahla olukhuselekileyo phezu kwentloko yam, kunye nokutya okwaneleyo kwipleyiti yam. Ndiyakonwabela ukonwaba okuhambelana kunye nokunethezeka kangangokuba uninzi lwabemi behlabathi abakwazi ukufikelela kulo. Kungenzeka ukuba, ngokunceda abo basweleyo, ndibonakalisa umbulelo wam ngokuzalwa ndikwindawo entle ngolu hlobo? Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ikhona inyani kule nto, ngakumbi ekunikeni kwam isisa.
Okanye mhlawumbi ngokunceda abanye abantu kwiingxaki zabo, ndiyayiphambukisa ingqwalaselo yam kwizinto endingathanda ukuzitshintsha ebomini bam. Ngaba ngamanye amaxesha ukunceda abanye kunokuba luhlobo lokuzibekel 'amangomso? Ngokuqinisekileyo ndingayibona inyani nakule, ngakumbi xa isiza ebomini.
Ndiyazibuza ukuba yintoni egqiba ngobude endikulungeleyo ukuya kubo. Ukuba ndibona umntu endingamaziyo obomi bakhe busemngciphekweni, ndingavuma ukubanceda ukuba kukho umngcipheko kubomi bam? Ungathini ukuba ibililungu losapho okanye umhlobo? Ukuba ndingamnceda okokugqibela, kodwa hayi eyokuqala, indixelela ntoni le nto malunga nokuba kutheni ndinceda abantu kwasekuqaleni?
Kuyathakazelisa kuba uncedo lunokunikwa ngezona zenzo zincinci, okanye kunokufuna isiphithiphithi esikhulu ebomini bakho. Ngamanye amaxesha ukumamela nje iingxaki zomnye umntu kunokwanela ukumnceda, ngelixa ezinye iimeko zisenokufuna ukuba uhambe umgama ongaphezulu. Akukho senzo kufuneka sithathelwe phantsi.
Ndiyazibuza ukuba ingaba sikhona na isenzo soncedo esikhudlwana kunesinye ukuba umamkeli uziva uluvo olufanayo lokuxabisa, ke ngoku yile nto ibalulekileyo? Kwaye ukuba ngenene awunako ukubeka iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zobubele kumanqaku ahlukeneyo kwisikali, ukuba awukwazi ukubabela ixabiso, kutheni le nto sibona izinto ngokuzithoba?
Mhlawumbi oku kuyacebisa ukuba umncedisi alindele into njengembuyekezo mhlawumbi imvakalelo efudumeleyo oyifumanayo ngokunceda umntu ayonelanga iyodwa ukuphuma kwendlela yakho.
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Ukanti zikhona izinto ezingenabugovu ezenzeka ngalo lonke ixesha kukho imizekelo engenakubalwa yabantu abanikezele ngayo yonke into- kwezinye iimeko ubomi babo - ukunceda, okanye ukuzama nokunceda, abo bafuna uncedo. Kutheni besenza oku?
Ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi kunokuqwalaselwa kuphela ngoncedo xa kungekho kulindelwa kwimbuyekezo? Ngaba ikhona enye into ngokutshintshisanayo?
wazi njani ukuba indoda iyazifihla iimvakalelo zayo
Kukho iimeko apho ndiye ndaziva ndinoxinzelelo olongezelelekileyo xa ndinceda abanye ngaphandle, mhlawumbi oku kungaphawulwa njengoncedo lokwenyani. Ngelixa inokuba ndiqhutywa, ngandlela thile, ngezibonelelo zam ngamanye amaxesha.
Ngaba sibeka ixabiso kwinto esilindele ukuyifumana njengembuyekezo-nokuba ngaba sisenzo esi siphindaphindayo okanye imvakalelo efudumeleyo esiyifumanayo-phambi kokuthatha isigqibo sokuba indleko zokunceda ziphezulu okanye zisezantsi kuneli nani.
Kwaye kuthiwani xa sicela uncedo, ngaba silunika kuba siziva sinyanzelekile, okanye kuba sifuna njalo?
Heck, mhlawumbi ziinkqubo zethu zokuziphatha ezichonga ixesha kunye nendlela esinceda ngayo abantu esinokubanceda kuphela xa sijonga ukuba yinto elungileyo yokwenza.
Kwaye kungakanani isenzo soncedo esinokuthi sehlele eluthandweni lwethu ngomnye umntu-nokuba siyabazi okanye asibazi?
Ewe, njengoko bendilindele, ukubhala oku kundishiye nemibuzo engaphezulu kuneempendulo kwaye andicingi ukuba ndingabeka umnwe wam kweso sizathu singathandekiyo sokuba kutheni, okanye omnye umntu, anike uncedo.
