Abantu be-Narcissistic abakwazi ukwenza nayiphi na kwezi zinto zi-8. Ezi mvakalelo kunye nokuziphatha ngokulula azikho kwingqondo yomntu owenza izinto ezimbi.
Ngaba uyazazi iindlela ezahlukeneyo abathi abantu abenza izinto ezingekho mgangathweni kunye noososhiyali babathobe isidima amaxhoba abo ukuze babaphathe kakubi ngaphandle kokuziva benetyala?
Ngaba ukhe waphathwa gadalala ezandleni zomntu obhala into eyenzakalisayo? Ngaba uyawaqonda la mahla ndinyuka njengenxalenye yokuchacha kwakho?
Xa uzama ukuphilisa emva kokubandezeleka ezandleni ze-narcissist, phinda ezi ziqinisekiso rhoqo njengenxalenye yendlela yakho ebanzi.
Wakha wafuna ukwazi eyona ndlela yokujongana ne-narcissist? Zama le ndlela; kuphela kwendlela efanelekileyo yokuphatha umlilo.
Lumka kakhulu ngothando lokuqhushumisa-fumana ukuba yintoni kwaye kutheni ihlala ithetha ukuba ujolise kwi-narcissist.
Amagama anokungasondeli kwinto yokuba ixhoba lokuphathwa gadalala lifune ukuhambisa, kodwa ukuba banako, bangakuthetha oku kwabo babaxhaphazayo.
I-Narcissism inamandla okusasaza ukusuka kumxhaphazi ukuya kwixhoba, ukujika ngobuhlobo, ukwamkela abantu babe ngabantu abakhohlakeleyo, abanomsindo.
Ngaba uyawazi umahluko phakathi kweMachiavellian neNarcissist? Ukuba akunjalo, nantsi inkcazo elula yokulandela indlela abahluke ngayo.
Funda ngendlela ii-narcissists ezisebenzisa ngayo imithombo yeendaba zentlalo kunye nendlela onokwazi ngayo ukubona enye ngokujonga izinto abazithumelayo kunye nendlela abanxibelelana ngayo.
Zininzi iindlela abantu abasebenzisa i-narcissist basebenzise ulwimi ukulawula, ukudida kunye nokwenza ingozi ngokwasemoyeni kumaxhoba abo. Nazi izinto eziqhelekileyo.
Ngaba kufanelekile ukuba sive uvelwano ngabantu abasebenzisa i-narcissist okanye abafanelwe bububele nemfesane yethu? Funda iimpikiswano kwaye uthathe isigqibo ngokwakho.
Sebenzisa olu luhlu luluhlu lwamanqaku ama-6 ukuze usebenze ukuba ujongana nomnxibelelanisi we-narcissist okanye umntu onokuzithemba okuphezulu.
Nje ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokushiya i-narcissist, unokufuna ezi ndlela zokukhusela ukuthintela ukubuyela kulwalamano olungenampilo.
Kutheni le nto ii-empaths kunye ne-narcissist zitsalela omnye komnye kwaye ziphele kubudlelwane? Eli nqaku lijongeka nzulu kwizizathu zengqondo.
Bonke abakhohlisi be-narcissists? Kutheni besenza oko? Ungazi njani ukuba umntu uyakopa? Ngaba ufanele uthethe nawo? Siyiphendula le mibuzo nangaphezulu.
Ngaba uyasokola ukunxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo ukusukela ubudlelwane bakho bokuhlukumeza busezandleni zomntu othanda ukuba narcissist? Funda indlela yokuphinda ufunde ezi zakhono.
Njengenxalenye yokuphathwa gadalala, ukuphathwa gadalala bafuna ukuba amaxhoba abo azive izinto ezithile. Nazi iimvakalelo ezili-9 abafuna ukuzenza engqondweni yakho.
Ke ufuna ukuziphindezela kwi-narcissist. Ufuna ukubenzakalisa, ukubaphula, ubenze babandezeleke. Ungakwenza njani oku ngelixa ugcina ingqondo yakho iphilile? Ungazijika njani iitafile kwaye uzenze lusizi? Impendulo isenokungabi yile ucinga ngayo.
Kwisiphelo esibi ngakumbi sesibonakaliso se-narcissistic yi-narcissist enobungozi. Ezi ziindidi zabantu ezinokonakalisa ubomi, kwaye zithintelwe ngcono. Nazi iimpawu ezili-12 onokujonga kuzo ukukunceda ubone enye xa udibana nabo.